I can understand how you feel, but from what you wrote, it seems
very hard to believe what your bf is saying.. He must be so filial
that he can give u up juz for the sake of making his parents
happy.. You think for yourself, if you love someone so much, would
u give him up and marry someone else juz because your parents
objects to your relationship? Maybe he IS so filial, and only you
know his character yourself.. you got to assess the situation now.
Is he trying to get out of this relationship by coming up with this
excuse? Or is he really saying the truth? I cant omit the fact that
his brother married a older woman, and MAYBE he really wants to
make his parents happy, but is he KILLING TWO BIRDS WITH 1
STONE?
Farahney, would u wan a guy who because of certain obstacles juz
give u up juz like dat? I mean i doubt his mentality if he says he
REALLY loves you.... but his actions are so immature! Hes hurting
you even more.. so what if you 2 are together and married in the
future, some other things crops up and ur husband says, sorry we
cannot be together, lets divorce! isnt that even a worse senario
then now?
Sorry if im too direct, but itz really wierd someone who loves u so
much treats u like dat... dun u think? 
