Can I ask, are you both serious in the 1st place about yourself
and being together? if not, then .... why? playing with fire of all
thing..
Anyway, just shared this with you about my old neighbour if you are
serious about getting together. You may need a check up to confrim
whether there will be any problem with having children in
future.
About my neighbour, I used to grow up and play with this friend of
mine, but I guess it was accidental over the years, this friend of
mine started dating his own cousin (from the mother's side).
Needless to say, there were parental objection especially from hte
girl's side as my friend's mum is okay with it so ling as the
future generation isn't affected. I do not really know the rest of
the detail, except that I think they did the check up and are
married with children now (saw them few years ago with their 2
children. I wonder how and whether do you call that incest, where
love had blossomed as a normal relationship between to persons,
happen to shared the same surname and are known to be
cousins.
On the other hand, imagine that another couple who got married and
yet share the same surname with no relationship tie to it, what do
you think. We were so called related in the past as so called came
from the same village of town where everyone shared a common
surname. but as generations gone by, our roots and relation has
kind of mutated and the genes factor too all seems too remote
unless it is from a direct descendent... anyone can clarify on this
.. read somethoing about this very long ago in ST. Besides, I also
understand in the olden days, some of these people from higher
places, in order to especade from the wrath of their
enemies/emperor, they shifted to some remote places and change
their surname too, like wise, some were given a certain surname as
a previllege ... therefore, everyone after that follow the
surname.. so it does not means we are not related, am I right to
say so? however, best thing, still best o opt for check up to
confirm.
I am maintain a neutral position on this matters as I don't really
know the term INCEST exist only until last year when I ame across
it. I thought it would be perfectly normal, just anohter BGR stuff.
Whatever, hope you can sort out this problem
