Wat if you found ur bf/gf lie to you?

He77AnGeL SG

Example like he/she say never contact wif his/her ex liao but you found out they still keep in contact very often. Or He/She lie to you which you hate some particular things you dun like him/her to do and he/she still do it? Question

Yunhaier SG

When you caught your partner red-handed about him/her lying - probably its the time when the relationship will start to decline.

Devil1976 SG

Not necessarily....

Devil1976 SG

Such things sometimes often when a person's mind is not set right.... Some other times probably because one wanna avoid making things worse... Things might not be as bad as 2nd party might think... So the 1st party is AVOIDING a scenerio where things get out of hands because of how a 2nd party might see things....

curad SG

will try 2 listen 2 his explanation lor...c wat he got to say...norm 4 mi,i will say i wun trust him tt much or dun even trust him again,then if the guy really loves u,he will ask 4 forgiveness n try 2 hold u back n ask 4 yr trust again....tt's when u 2 can sit dwn n tok things thru....

BrUtUs SG

listen to his explanations ... from wat u said, he is still in contact wif his ex, then r they in jz friend-friend situation? or soul mates or mayb something too close? ask for doing things u hate behind ur back, wat did he do? ask him y he did it and understand y. help him change the habit... b4 doing anything rash hv a good tok...

Yunhaier SG

Decline not as in declining till death stage. Lies often induce negative vibes in a relationship, causing mistrust and other minor to major faults/problems within both parties. Twisted Evil

Of course, the Lie I am speaking is pretty much a 'big' thing. How 'big' is big? - subjective.

Cheers

Devil1976 SG

Ya lah... Anyway, ya said PROBABLY..? Twisted Evil

Yunhaier SG

Hehe... Twisted Evil

He77AnGeL SG

thanx everyone!!! Crying or Very sad

sNicKeRdOodLe SG

well.. i wld do nth.. my ex used to lie to mi, dun tink he ever knew i know dat he lied to me.. jus gotta noe e truth aniway, dat's wad u call:"wad goes ard, comes ard".. everytime although i knew e truth, will b angry for a little while den wil forgive him.. haiz.. like him too much to care bout these tiny stuff.. BUT it depends on wad things he lied to u!! If minor things, den wun do anything bah.. BUT if MAJOR.. tink u betta ask him y he lied to u!!

Devil1976 SG

Cool

Devil1976 SG

Why still so sad? Rolling Eyes

He77AnGeL SG

Cos i haven confront him....

sNicKeRdOodLe SG

den u do so lor, b4 e problem gets bigger!!

lv_gal SG

i think i'll angry or quarrel with him. but nv ended this relationship. cos if it does, it prove tat the bond is nt strong n the love r nt deep.
if u love somemore, u ought to learn to forgive n forget. N most impt is "TRUST". but if there is second time caught he lie to me abt the same things.... guess it reali nd to reconsider the relationship lo cos it shows that he might nt love u as b4 etc....

Devil1976 SG

Do you have to use the word 'confront'? You can just try to talk things out casually with him... But of course, your approach would have to depend on what kinda person he is... Need more help? Feel free to PM me....