Hi forumites!
Hmmm....i noticed that more and more people are either getting very
frustrated or even sad to the point of feeling hopeless due to them
not having the things they want in some part of their life. Well,
what i refer to here is their "love life". I find it quite absurd
when people lament about how their bf/gf does this, did that or
some people that they like ignored their feelings which made them
feel hopeless. Actually i feel that to actually LIKE a person is a
happy thing, why must people take it so hard when things are not
going smoothly? Setbacks are there to guide you to the correct
path, it is to help you understand the situation, understand
yourself better and of course the other half. So when you meet up
with something that is not favourable to you, take a step back,
take a breather and think.
Perhaps some people place too much feelings and hope onto someone
they like til the extend that it is impossible to accept a flaw in
that person. But remember that humans are not perfect, they err
too. Accept that person as he/she is, don't place your hopes too
high and you'll find yourself to be a much happier person.
