how to ask a girl go steady with u?

thoreldan SG

i think this might have appeared in the forum before, but have missed it.

ok, do u ask the girl like "do u wish to be my stead" or "can i be your b/f?"
or do u hold her hand and see her response?
lets share your great tips here...

~AiTaiYuan~ SG

was listening to 933..then they were discussing this topic n the deejays came up wif this idea:

when out on a date wif the girl..choose a road wif no traffic light crossing or overhead bridge to cross..hold the girl's hand..then run across the road..when u reach the opposite side of the road..dun let go off her hand..if she never "shake off" ur hand..tt means on liao..

Laughing

hONdA_rIDeR SG

wow.... a bit...creative...hahaha...i think...its...may..work... but..being rejected its not..a very good..feeling lor..

the Bear SG

rejection is always a bitter pill to swallow...

however, nothing ventured, nothing gained...

go out with her a lot, get to know her... when it's time, you'll know Smile

ask her nicely Smile

"it would be my great honour if you would date me exclusively... for i have fallen deeply, passionately and madly in love with you. would you be my steady girlfriend and take me as your steady boyfriend?"

BrUtUs SG

hand holding method is ok, u can oso surprise her with flowers then pop her the question….

AzRaeL SG

you say:
Suck Me Beautiful

www SG

HAHAHAHAHAHA.

the Bear SG

what happens when.. You SUCK (slap!)

look for another? Razz

hONdA_rIDeR SG

hheheheheheheee,..that nice Laughing

edLow SG

i think this is extreme common leh. known this method 4 yrs ago liao.
i think my frd used this method or something similiar 4 yrs ago when he wanna pop tat question out. and somemore he copy the idea from someone else!

choco B SG

Progressive questioning.

"What do you like in a boyfriend?"

"Do I fit the bill? *sheepish grin* "

Mospeada SG

this kind of thing still have to ask one meh?

just hold her hand and take good care of her all your life.....

or must u write a business plan/proposal to her for approval?? Mr. Green

KWSW SG

Hold her hand and ask her if you can continue holding it? Mr. Green

~AiTaiYuan~ SG

i tink for the deejay's idea..the trick is not to pop the question out? just hold her hand n see her reaction..reduces the awkwardness of verbal rejection i guess.. Razz

KWSW SG

Than at least can just act blur and carry on as if nothing happened right? Mr. Green

Ben-i SG

when you hold her hand.. tell her to give u a handjob

NeonTetra SG

hmm..... Shocked

pool.gal SG

perhaps you might also want to consider the female's point of view? very rude to shake off your hand even if she does not like you lei. I speak for myself that gals want their guys to honour and respect them, ie, don't put them in a place when they have no choice. If you don't ask... you'll never know.

thhong22 SG

hmm.... hard to say.....
i think u need tian shi di li ren he to do the correct things at the correct time......
u cannot ask out of the sudden, too absurd.....
i think u oso need to c the gal's reaction being with u....
eg. "does she like ur company? does she enjoy being with u? how u think she feel 2wards u?" etc
if the wrong thing was ask at the wrong time.... things will become very awkward..... Confused

edLow SG

aiya.. Just enjoy each other company and things will work out naturally i guess. Unless u are rushing for one to happen.

For me now, i would rather let things go naturally. Might think too much sometime, but like tat lor....

As for the hold hand method mentioned above, he/she might hold her hand when crossing the rd. But after crossing the rd, he/she may just release it as he/she suppose u are trying to guide he/her safely across the rd.