Originally posted by Yunhaier:
Dear lushpies,
The silly side of Love is tolerence beyond a given amount and
throwing in reasons like love too much - in fact from the above
statement, this guy is probably your first love (you mentioned it
to be) or the kind of guy (must be very different or karmic
relationship)which you never felt so appreciated before. 
Quote: Woman, in their first love, loved their
lover. In all others, they loved love.
From the above quote and your own quote: [b]i can say that he is
the only guy who treat me so well before.. as in really give way to
me & pamper me... He is taking advantage of your
weakness and your inability to leave him. Firstly: He is your first
love - HOW are you so sure nobody would ever treat you better than
him.
You fear to be single. You fear to move on life
alone - your tendency and wanting to be dependent on someone is
very strong. Its your first love - once you experienced it, you
can't survive the way you always did when you were single -
this isn't love girl.
Break 3 times and patched back same number of times as well? The
issue is about a 3rd party? Girl - if three times is not enough to
realise the real him, let me kindly explain in words to you.
The reason why he would come back to you after patching is because
your bf cannot get her (or last with her due to external factors
(character, some traits, no chemistry, etc). Think about this: if
he would fall for a girl and created a problem because of that -
that's how shallow you are in his heart.
IF THIS GIRL IS DARN GOOD AND HE COULD GET HER AND
LAST WITH HER - do you think you will still be
with him?
Its all the matter of time - either you will be ditched eventually
or he changed totally.
Give chances? Many forum mates asked for chances. My point is -
how many chances does he needs to learn, to
respect his own relationship and his gf - THREE NOT ENOUGH? - I
feel its over the limit. Its not about giving chances - its about
what he do with those chances. Blown it or thrown it?
P.S: Always give a first chance - anymore similiar situation, hack
it.
Cheers [/b]
thanks a lot... i mean i am just really upset and cannot believe
almost of 2 years being together he treat still me this way... i
mean even if he really play with my feelings why must it be so
long... what wrong have i done to him to make him do all this...
why man are so wicked.... does he really love me before... i really
cant get over it... i feel so lost.
