A convenient excuse to sit on the couch every evening drinking
beer and watching TV... because, after all, he's the kind of guy
who likes to sit on the couch, drink beer, and watch TV.
You see being a Don Juan is not about being yourself. And it's
certainly not about pretending to be someone that you're not. It's
about becoming the person that you want to be. It's about
self-improvement and reaching your full potential. It's about
feeling good, being happy, and learning new things.
Time and time again I've gotten emails from people telling me how
the information at SoSuave.com has changed their lives for the
better. How they now understand "the game" better, and how their
social lives have dramatically improved as a result.
Yet, get this, when they tell their friends about the site, about
all the cool information there, and how it changed their lives...
their friends are not the least bit interested.
Or their friends may even think the whole idea of "learning" how to
act around women is ridiculous and try to make them feel bad for
even suggesting such a thing.
The friends will then preach JBY to the person, and try to convince
the person that he doesn't need "tricks and gimmicks" to do well
with women.
These oh-so-wise friends are the same ones who cower in a corner
when out at a bar. The same friends who spend most of their time
surfing the net or playing computer games. The same friends who
insist that you should buy flowers, write love notes, be "friends"
first, take her to the most expensive restaurant in town, tell her
you love her (on the first date), etc.
In other words, these friends don't have a clue, yet have the
audacity to preach JBY to those who are trying to improve
themselves and understand what really works.
Talk to them about challenge, body language, confusion,
desperation, confidence, conversational strategies, or any of the
other Basic Stuff at the site, and watch as their eyes glaze over
like a deer caught in headlights.
Are you actually going to take advice from these people?
Why are they like this? Why can't they see that JBYing is not
working for them? Why can't they understand that simply learning
and implementing a few simple "tactics" could dramatically improve
their lives?
Because they're lazy !!
Becoming a Don Juan is about self-improvement. And self-improvement
often times involves work. Take a look at all the info at
SoSuave.com. It would take WEEKS just to read it all. Then you have
to commit it to memory. Then implement and practice. This takes
time and effort.
Make no mistake about it... you're not going to go from a Non Juan
to a Don Juan over night.
Do you think that Michael Jordan became the greatest basketball
player in history by JBYing? When he failed to make the varsity
team in High School, do you think he went home and said, "Oh well.
I guess I'm just not much of a basketball player. But I'm sure
there must be something else I can do."?
I don't think so. He grabbed the freakin ball, and practiced, and
practiced, and practiced.
What about women? Do you think that they subscribe to the JBY model
of dating? You tell me.
They spend hours working on their hair, their makeup, their skin,
and everything else imaginable before going out. They spend untold
fortunes on clothes, shoes, accessories, diet pills, and anything
else they can find to make themselves more attractive.
And have you ever read Cosmo, Glamour, or any of the other women's
magazines on the stand? Just look at the covers.
20 Ways to Make Him Fall in Love with You... Instantly
Is Your Man a Cheater? Take Our Test and Find Out
Bedroom Tactics to Rock His World
You see women have been studying "us" since they were old enough to
read. When we're out burning ants, playing ball, or watching
cartoons, they're pouring over the latest edition of Seventeen and
discovering "New Kissing Techniques that Will Leave Him
Drooling."
They're having slumber parties, giggling, and professing the merits
of playing hard to get, not returning phone calls, flirting
strategies, not looking desperate, body language, or whatever.
They're learning the "game" and how to play it... and very very
well.
We're busy JBYing... and they're researching, studying, and
practicing. Is it any wonder that in most relationships the woman
is in complete control? Is it any wonder that most guys, when they
do occasionally get a date, make complete fools of
themselves?
Is it any wonder that YOU'RE having so much trouble with
women?
I think not. In fact, I think being an "idiot" is the norm for men.
I think most guys are completely clueless.
And that's why those of you smart enough to seek out this site are
destined for greatness.
Those of you who visit the site regularly, those of you who study
and practice, those of you who've dedicated yourselves to learning
and improving, should be commended. You are in the minority. And if
you keep at it, you will reap the rewards.
And, oh man, how sweet the rewards !!!
Allen Thompson
