how to show love to a girl

farrell SG

ok, it’s like this i have this good friend and i’ve fallen for her.. how do i show her love yet not making her feel irritated and blah blah.. need help from you guyz

ashgoh SG

How long have you been good frens with her ???

Start having 1-1 dates with her. If she goes out on dates with you frequently, it should means u stand some chance. After a few dates, confess to her that you have likings for her.

Just one advice, don't rush into things.

AzRaeL SG

that’s easy, to show love to her, just make love to her

tequila SG

wow.. u think the girl is a hooker is it?

farrell SG

actually know her for like 2-3 years liao but not really friends only this yr then we became friends loh.. we do go out together loh.. she tells me almost everything.. but he just got herself a boyfriend so yea.. damn sad loh.. but.. yea
then she will call me to talk.. i will call her to talk.. like that loh.. nw go out liao.. later tnouight come home hope you guys can tell me what to do ok! thx alot

ashgoh SG

Signz...just remain as close frens to her. You can still wait for her if you want. But do not get involve in third party relationship. If one day she broke off with his bf, then only should u court her. Meanwhile you should look for others.

There will be others here who will advise you to hang on or go ahead and court her. But I can assure you that getting into 3 party relationship is never easy. In the end at least one party will get hurt.

Seriously I doubt she feels for you. Alot of times, girls who are close to guys just wanted someone of the opp. sex to hear them and give them opinion. Sad
She just wanted you to be her close frens thats all.

Sorry for pouring the cold water... Wish you luck in whatever choices you made. Cool

Devil1976 SG

Why would you wanna step in since she've already got a bf...? Why didn't you do it earlier...? Besides, it's not a wise time to intervent when she've just got herself a bf...? Rolling Eyes

Yunhaier SG

Seriously speaking what you do really want? To come into the picture to ruin her relationship with her bf and probably get her OR others?

Definition of others: Moving on with your life.

P.S: You people are good friends, however she may not have that kind of BGR liking for you. Its always better to find out and know your situation better before doing anything else. Rolling Eyes

Cheers

farrell SG

it’s like that loh, i like her for a while already. then she once told me about this guy that likes her and of course she likes him too. so what can i do.. like that loh then a few weeks ago she told me she’s with him liao loh..but please make this clear loh she’s with guy, i don’t intend to purposely break them apart.. i want that girl to be happy and all.. i mean they can break or what but i will not be happy, cos she’ll be sad and all right (which i don’t want her to). what i feel right is to know her longer.. and see how the her current relationship turns loh.. very confuse wah! hope u guys can help me out yea..

Kevin-1982 SG

It gonna hurt...Life can be so fu-cked up at times...I understand how u feel now...

Healin SG

Help you out? If you want her to be happy then pls remain as only a "fd" to her. Don create any chance for her to have doubts bout her current bf. How to tell her you love her? Don't. You yourself have mentioned she has a bf now and you wan her to be happy. So the advise here is to steer clear of their relationship.

You may think I'm cruel but you wanted her to be happy. So I reckon you don wan her to suffer any agony. If you want to noe her longer jus keep in contact will do lor. Then she won't forget you as a fd.

the Bear SG

you are going to show you love her by being the 3rd party?

sheesh...

be her friend, not the person who is going to cause her misery...

think.. she's NOT your girl.. she's someone else's girl!

Yunhaier SG

You just answered your own question; Its time to move on with you life. This is what you should do. Rolling Eyes

Why? Gonna wait for her to break isn't? Let me tell you before you attempt to do something like this: It she is meant to be yours - she would be. Just continue with your life and enlarge your social circle. Sticking to the dim future isn't going to be very easy for your emotions.

Cheers

farrell SG

true true.. thanks alot guys.. i think you guys really helped me sort thigns out.. now i know what that situation is for both of us. yea i guess we carry on as friends loh.. right now i think i’ll stop being a mofo.. and wish her the best yei!

Devil1976 SG

Glad you've managed to move out of your foolish thoughts...? Some thinkings might seem to buy you that CHANCE... But in fact they just comes along with ALOT of FOOLISHNESS.... Rolling Eyes

chaar123 SG

U should !&(&$!&$ Her