my previous r/s (the only one i had in my life so far...) also
crumbled when there's lack of trust... but this factor....is hard
to determine loh... cause sometimes.... it's a "built up habit" of
the person, to lie, and hide ard matters, in case the party in qns
will be hurt.....
habit... if since young, this habit already happen le, quite
probable it might happen in a r/s.... it depends on how truthful
the other party wants to be to u.....
i noe it's hard but... the path that u have chosen.... u can carry
on wif it, i'm still gd frens wif my ex... =)
juz let urself take a break from all this thinking, blaming, and
ranting..... u hurt urself each time u do that.... juz take time,
to forget abt the unhappiness..., after which, u have to give
urself a chance to pick urself up, and fall in love again.... u dun
juz give up on urself.... cause no one can help u after u do
that.....
=)
if u think he isn't affected by the breakup... then so be it....
some ppl dun understand the meaning of love..... not juz yet..... u
can find ur true love.... juz let urself recover first....
=)