Hi all,
I just joined this forum and i found it very helpful esp in regard
to matters of the heart. So i wish to seek advice from all experts
in here, like Yunhaier, etc ... ( I like your love story, Yunhaier
! )
I'll give a backgrd story of my problem. I had know this girl who
was my friend's ex-gf. We actually knew each other for quite long,
but no contact since she was still my fren's gf. From march, i had
been having contact with her as we are taking a course together and
we exchanged contact numbers
Thru all this contact, i started to have some feelings for her, n
thus i started to ask her out. I bought her to ECP for cycling,
went to stadium cove waterfront for a walk cum dinner. I really
enjoyed her company.
And now, I felt that I wanted to tell her my feelings that I liked
her. But do u think I should ? Or should I delay my timing till
later ? We can talk alot during phone or when we met outside. We
can talk abt anything and she can tell me that she got some1 who's
chasing her (rejected) and she got a crush on some1(she knew that
it's only a crush) But, the thing is that all the dates, SMS, phone
calls are inititated by me. Is that normal ? How can I tell I have
chance ?
I really can't bear to hold on, but I hoped to get a better timing
and way to tell her my feelings. Is there any good way ? I know
such things can be only 2 results; Success or Failure. Thus, I
wanna get it over with and if Failure, i can adjust myself ASAP.
But believe me, even if she reject me, I'll still treat her as
well.
So all experts, plse help me out and a million thanx !! 
