Da wae U write har... pain to da eyes leh!!! can write in either
caps or non caps?!
Highlighted in red can be called "selfish love" if dun wanna let
go. U wan da person (ALL of him) to yrself. not allowing him to try
to LOVE or enjoy other things... meaning U "bind" him, he unable to
do other things compared to a "single" person.
Quote an example: assuming U & yr stead love each other VERY
much... Everydae meet, tok, enjoy company. Then 1 dae U r offered a
chance to go abroad to pursue a dream U ALWAYS wanted. U wanted to
go, but wat abt yr stead? U r binded by dis "chain".
If yr stead is "selfish", yr stead WILL try ALL waes to prevent U
from chasing yr dream coz he/she/it wan U to be wif him/her/it. By
allowing U to pursue yr dream, he/she/it is letting go... letting
go of da time when U 2 will be missed... dat time maybe painful,
BUT if U 2 r confident of yr love, somedae, U 2 WILL return to each
other...
Letting go is not necessary da BEST wae... Its oso VERY hard as a
matter of fact. Words cannot explain wat exactly is "letting go"...
U have to experience it yrself.
