Ladies out there! please take your time to read this. Mature

lv_gal SG

well, not ALL gals are materialistic and go for handsome guys. In fact guys also go for pretty gals too..... then did guys give chance to those ugly gals? It is a fair world! however, in a true love relationship, be it the couple r mature or nt, both parties wont reali mind each other looks. Is looks extremely impt in a realationship? those average look also can. Give a quick think, if ur partner good looking but he/she are those unfaithful, unreasonable and got many bad points etc, will u still continued the relationship?

WhosUrDaddy? SG

If you think girls only go for handsome/rich guys.. only a small percentage of girls go for those kind of guys. I am a guy who isn't attached (and has NEVER been attached)... but I do have lots of female friends. And I know their bfs who are not rich nor handsome.

From these ppl, I realised that ladies are most attracted to 2 things :
Confidence and sense of humour. Of course, they rather choose someone who is financially stable, able to give security etc. You can't blame them for this. But its different compared to those who go for rich, handsome guys. Those are shallow people who dun even mind being labelled as shallow in the first place.

If you can pose questions like the above.. I believe you need to work on your self-confidence. In time you'll realise its not about the riches or the looks that really counts... its character.

A girl will choose an ordinary guy with abundant confidence and humour, rather than some 1.8m wooden fella with a gold card in hand.

I am not tall, nor rich, nor good looking to begin with. But I offset all those 'impurities' with character building. And I believe that special someone will come along my way very very soon.

loneryu00 SG

Good 1. Mr. Green (N no, Yun... I not gonna applause yr comment though good lah... I got bored wif yr "So good comments"... For once, I wanna see a STRANGE comment from U leh... Laughing )

Da world is round. Wat it meant? No matter how far U go, U r STILL moving in circles... never ending... da same can be said to "Y gals go for good looking, rich guys OR guys looking for pretty, sexy gals blah blah blah..."

Wat U can do is wat daady said...focus on yr character. Our physical body is only a shell for us to use to facilitate in dis reality... U always see those ppl who r, bigger, stronger, more pretty, handsome, sexy, rich, etc, etc... which U r unfortunately none compared to them... not even rich!!!

"Y is life so unfair" U wld ask... Well, sadly sae "Life IS unfair", which is wat makes life so challenging... Juz tink it dis wae... A guy who have da looks, body, $$$, watever in dis world is getting all da advantage... While YOU dun have any... wat it meant? To me, its smth like a difficulty lvl... da guy is living in dis world at a low & easy lvl, while YOU r playing at a high & hard lvl... No difference from a video game... All da more exciting.

in da end, when it comes to acheivement (personal), I DARE sae U acheive more than dat guy... MARK my words. Yr character is alot better than him, U acheive in life MORE than him, U feel for once... "Complete". Mr. Green

leilan84 SG

Originally posted by Just_Me_loh:
Does girls really look for handsome, rich guy as stead?

Its not fair like guy like me. WHo is damn ugly and not so rich. and no girls like us.

Infact, ugly guy is the most [b]hornest guy. in the way that, they won't go around fliting around. Coz they know they got no chance one! just a lame toad trying for a swan meat.

So why girls out there. please give the ugly toad a chance lah! they sure make a good partner... "matural relationship"

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Laughing

/me not very handsome also
it all goes down to the character

oceanic SG

not all gals r what u said.. but most gals r like that i guess

but on one hand... guys also goes for pretty gals n not ugly gals right?

Just_Me_loh SG

thanks for all that. u can say me off. i nP wan.. coz i really lack of confidence loh. ACtually got a few gal say to me before.. "lame toad eat swan meat" loh. Last time i fought with a lot of guys before for the gal dat i like. Ya! i can fight well, seldom i lose.. but when the gal's bf is under my foot! i feel bad a lot of time.. Coz when they are injured, the gf will go and help him up... and left me alone.. I m not a hero but a ZERO for gals... dats why now, i repect all gal's bf too loh. Even for de gal which i love very much...

Now, i change a lot. but shy and no confidence.. Often i lack of self esteems too! just dunno wad can i do to boost myself up! i not des for gal (although i never go steady b4/ofen failed)

Last time i was confidence but perhaps too confidence liao... dat they climb ontop of my head and shit!

No cheers!

browniebaobao SG

Hornest or honest? My answer is no..not all girls..depends on individuals..I believe that if it is true love, nothing else matters..rich or poor, handsome or ugly etc..Coz you will be perfect in her eyes if she has fallen for you!

Yunhaier SG

Strange comment? Hahahhaha... Mr. Green Twisted Evil

Good comments? I feel that I kinda rebuke people at times. Rolling Eyes

Yunhaier SG

Fought with guys physically for the girl you like? Lucky thing you changed, if not, probably a tongue lashing from me. Rolling Eyes

You know what I will tell the guy who fought If I was the other guy.

'You may win this fight, but you are still an overall loser.'

Direct this aggressiveness into postitve channels and you will see better results and confidences flowing. You could fight well, but could you secure a girl you truly love without fist, without force? The day when you realise how this works - it would be the day that your first gf will arrive. Rolling Eyes

You have the power to do anything: just that you can't meddle with Free Will - watch Bruce Almighty and you understand what am I talking about.

My take is: start your first step first in being truely yourself. Inferiority is a kind of preception - you can overcome it, you can overcome it. After putting yourself at par with the majority people - then you can start doing things to increase your self confidences. Rolling Eyes

P.S: Mars energy put to good use is industrious. (Astrology) Wink

Cheers

Xiao Long Nu SG

Cool

loneryu00 SG

Originally posted by Yunhaier:

Fought with guys physically for the girl you like? Lucky thing you changed, if not, probably a tongue lashing from me.

You know what I will tell the guy who fought If I was the other guy.

[b]'You may win this fight, but you are still an overall loser.'

Direct this aggressiveness into postitve channels and you will see better results and confidences flowing. You could fight well, but could you secure a girl you truly love without fist, without force? The day when you realise how this works - it would be the day that your first gf will arrive. Rolling Eyes

You have the power to do anything: just that you can't meddle with Free Will - watch Bruce Almighty and you understand what am I talking about.

My take is: start your first step first in being truely yourself. Inferiority is a kind of preception - you can overcome it, you can overcome it. After putting yourself at par with the majority people - then you can start doing things to increase your self confidences. Rolling Eyes

P.S: Mars energy put to good use is industrious. (Astrology) Wink

Cheers [/b]

Ya... Try to seperate da soup... May be fun & fascinating... but it means nth...

Wat Jim carrey did wif da soup can be related to our lives... We may do alot of fascinating things... like showing off smth to ppl, get into a fight & win? But theres no meaning in doin those weird stuffs...

Just_Me_loh SG

Originally posted by Yunhaier:

Fought with guys physically for the girl you like? Lucky thing you changed, if not, probably a tongue lashing from me.

You know what I will tell the guy who fought If I was the other guy.

[b]'You may win this fight, but you are still an overall loser.'

Direct this aggressiveness into postitve channels and you will see better results and confidences flowing. You could fight well, but could you secure a girl you truly love without fist, without force? The day when you realise how this works - it would be the day that your first gf will arrive. Rolling Eyes

You have the power to do a
nything: just that you can't meddle with Free Will - watch Bruce Almighty and you understand what am I talking about.

My take is: start your first step first in being truely yourself. Inferiority is a kind of preception - you can overcome it, you can overcome it. After putting yourself at par with the majority people - then you can start doing things to increase your self confidences. Rolling Eyes

P.S: Mars energy put to good use is industrious. (Astrology) Wink

Cheers [/b]

Corerect! That was last time when i was young.. i learn a lot of thing in the pass loh! Fight does not solve a problem. So wad if i won de fight. but overall loser. I raised both hands and legs and my .... to support you. Smile

Just_Me_loh SG

well, i find gf, i nv go for looks, as long as she love me, and vice versa.. its ok! but of coz look for those average wan will do.. too chio, i dun wan.. coz no secure lah!

Yunhaier SG

Woah, saved for your .... I appreciate it. Twisted Evil

Just_Me_loh SG

Muahahahaha... Laughing

reallieRAW SG

Dun mind if I ask you Twisted Evil
If today, there are 2 gals whom you are attracted to and you have the same & equal affection for both. Both of them confess at the same time that they like you, who will you CHOOSE?

**dun tell me it wont happen or blah blah...juz answer to it Mr. Green

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