Do u haf crushes when u are IN A RELATIONSHIP?

InVaa SG

when u got a gf/bf do u haf crushes? Confused wad do u do? let the feelings fade? jio? break?

|Uv`-f|UtE-` SG

I haf a small crush on another guy when i'm attached.. So i juz tell myself to stop thinking abt tat guy n kinda like force myself to let the feelings fade away..
Find tat its wrong to like someone else rather den the person u r currently going out wif.. its gonna hurt the other party terribly.. i was hurt by tis issuse before , the feeling is beri overwhelming , feel so suffocated..

loneryu00 SG

Let me check my history...

Nope......

cHeR|sH^LoVe SG

nahz..

Acrux SG

Yes. But same case as stated above, I'd remind myself it's just a crush I am already in love with someone else.

Some people just go for whatever they think is better for them....

evanesence SG

It's NORMAL to have a crush while u are in a relationship...

Since a CRUSH is usually a temporary infatuation...

And an INFATUATION is a foolish, unreasoning, or extravagant passion or attraction..

Eg: U see hot babe, u THINK u r in love with her, but when U realise tt she laughs like a hyena... U think she's a big turn off...

THAT's INFATUATION! TOTALLY diff from LOVE!

So why must u break up with your GF/BF becuz of sometin STUPID like that?? Rolling Eyes

Unless ur definition of crush means something else....

xiao_p SG

nice!

jOhO SG

nope.

harryryan SG

got ppl laff liike hyena one meh?

Guy23 SG

eh but wat if u lost the feeling in ur bf/gf and happen to meet this new bf/gf will u proceed or will u stay becos of conscience?

Yunhaier SG

You certainly can't control feelings - but you can control your actions and the possible consequences. The same way when you truly hated someone and hope/wished/pray that he/she to be killed by you - you will be charged only when you perform the act of attempt murder. Rolling Eyes

Cheers

Devil1976 SG

Hmm... Cool

AzRaeL SG

it’s okay to have a crush as long as you do not do anything