Yunhaier SG In the end, it all boils down to nan ren bu huai, nui ren bu ai. But for this case, I am surprised - yes, its true that woman prefer a guy to be experienced so that they can be satisfied better. HOWEVER - sex isn't just about satisfication and that's it. The process about how you go enjoy it and learn together is the main thing. By CloUdiSm theories - you are still standing on an advantage and you will have the last laugh. You shouldn't be feeling ashamed cause you are a Virgin - instead look around and see whois is in the same caterogy as you, virtually less than a handful. Cheers
Maya061 SG geeeezz.. it's like a miracle that there's still a virgin guy... good for you. better you wait until you find a right one to do it. as for me.. i prefer a virgin one then those who have try sex before married (bet they won't stop after they try). just curious.. does anyone of you boys wouldn't feel disappointed if you find out that your gf/wife is not a virgin anymore ??
19Guy1LoveNotSex SG just curious.. does anyone of you boys wouldn't feel disappointed if you find out that your gf/wife is not a virgin anymore ??For me ,i will be disappointed..maybe i am selfish ..but its like i cant stop the thinking of her being F**K by guy b4...however if i really love her ,i will fogive her past
dumbdumb! SG dun be ashamed that u are a virgin.. think abt it this way.. anytime we want, we can become like them, but they can never be like us again. enjoying sex with your future life parter, is not just abt experience.. it is proven that sex is enjoyed better when both parties trust and love each other. and most women will feel more assured and trust their partner more when they know taht their partners kept themselves for only them.
Ray of faith SG I haf to correct u in this part.....it is imptant that u forgive... but it is more impt u try to forget.... if not u might start to bring the matter up if u uarrel with her...
2centsworth SG I'm reaching 25 and still a V. I strongly believe that a r/s is not something to be toyed around with and once you are committed should see it through till marriage. Thought of the scenario that if I get a girlfriend who tells me she's not a V amd what should I do. I feel that I'll probably just stay with her first and try to get over it (most probably never will). I don't think I will have sex with her as I'll probably be unable to get thoughts of her getting screwed by another guy out of my mind. Hence, I'll probably just try to widen my social circle and as soon as I get someone else, I'll leave her......
NeonTetra SG so u mean u expect a virgin since u r one and will continue to widen ur social circle until u found one????
*firefly* SG tats v selfish.. if u know she isnt a V, and you cant accept it, leave her... y hang on to her after you get someone else.. pure selfishness... so if the next gf isnt a V.. u mean history will repeat itself?
mercutioz SG i agree with firefly. Maintaining chastity is up 2 oneself. If u r so adamant abt finding someone who is a V, i pity the person who accept u, cos wat u express here is so chidish and selfish
