Chat wif her abt wad? HELP!

InVaa SG

whenever i call the girl or she call me.. like not much to chat abt.. its alwayz she start a topic den once in a while i give 1 sentence comment.. i dun 1 her to think tt i am bored.. i love toking to her listening to wad she say.. but i realiee dunno wad to tok abt.. i scare nxt time she dun call me liao.. HOW

PaJeRoMiNi Ver 1.0 SG

Tok abt...movies? cartoons or tv programs? or maybe tell each other funny stories you have heard before... Mr. Green

InVaa SG

k thx.. ne more advice?

loneryu00 SG

anything dat comes into yr mind... maybe some topics U 2 r interested or have in common can help?

Mazohyst SG

tell her abt how u want to suck her tits. hahahhahahahahhahahahha

Yunhaier SG

Astrology mode: ON. Twisted Evil

Mecury is retrogating until 23 of this month - communication will be a problem for everyone. Evil or Very Mad

Aunt Agony mode: ON

I hate to talk on the phone without conversation going on - regardless of how much I love listening to the person speaking on the other side, when the conversation is dead, it is dead. You can talk like a soul mate to some people, but not everyone. Rolling Eyes

However, conversation can be better if your circle of friends/life/society lies within the same circle - the topic and scope is wider. Throw in topics from things around you, then when it is going downhill - anything under the sun: just speak. Twisted Evil

Cheers

kohanson SG

Laughing

Papering SG

dont be afraid to open up to other subjects.. hmm, some of my friends face the same problem cos they are afraid to talk about some sensitive topics. girls nowadays are quite open so no worries! Mr. Green

Papering SG

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InVaa SG

thx for all ur precious replies.. except for the tits…. thx

the Bear SG

the first few times are awkward... if there is a rapport, you can talk about everything under the sun, the most complex and profound things, the silliest and nonsensical gags, and both of you will not be bored...

what's hard is building this trust.. it takes time, effort, and trying to find out what interest her and letting her find out what interest you... and after a while, when both lower your defences, you'll find that conversation becomes relaxed and flowing..

good luck with her yah? Smile

InVaa SG

erm.. i call her everyday issit a bit too fan? will i be bothering her? wait for her to call me? fat hope lol.. or call her now Embarassed

the Bear SG

don't "fan" her...

once in a while.. give her space too... personally, i'm not good on a phone and i'd ask her out... take a walk, have some ice-cream.. you know.. stuff like that.. also gives you subjects to talk about.. like:

sheesh! it's hotter than hades today! i'm dying but you still look great! how do you do it?

or

aww.. what a cute little baby... isn't he cute? babies fatfat very cute Smile

or

i love ice-cream... especially triple choc.. what other flavours do you like besides butterscotch?

or

say, wanna go grab something to eat? i'm famished!

Dorian-X SG

Intro? + How you got to know her and how is the situation between you and her now?

InVaa SG

erm.. ex classmates.. sch mates now.. often call her n chat

UandMe SG

maybe u can switch to talk to her on the icq.. it might be quite lifeless as u could not hear each other's voice, but it's not so odd when both of u have nothing to say.
if not just dun call...who says bf and gf must talk on the phone everytime... u can chat all u one when u two met Neutral