Originally posted by jOhO:
good thing u asked those two questions, cos many pple
(watever the level of english) fail to state wat they are asking! i
guess usually they ask for "comments"
[b]am i in love with her?
no. this would be classified infatuation. or crush. love doesn't
blossom online (okok let's not argue about this huh? just in
general) and doesn't take this short amount of time (and of course
the quality of time spent together).
how she feels abt me?
this one is harder to answer. and unfortunately the best person to
answer that, besides of course, herself, is you. what do ur
instincts tell u? wat kind of girl is she? maybe u ought to get to
know her better b4 u can answer this question. u see, many of her
actions could be passed off as just a girl treating you as a normal
guy friend, occasionally flirting. maybe it seems like she's
telling u everything, but maybe she's not? and even if someone does
share alot of their lives with you, it does not have to be with
romantic inclinations.
u sound very vexed in ur post. why? what is wrong with a guy liking
a girl? if u get to know her better and continue to fall for her,
it's not a bad thing rite? heck it's a NATURAL thing, if u ask me.
of course u may say, if i like her, and she dun like me back, then
how? how? like that lar how!! it's life brother, and it's something
we all go thru. of course the hurt and pain isn't something to jump
for joy about, but it is a learning process that we all go thru.
chasing girls, knowing how to maintain a relationship, knowing how
to tactfully handle problems, learning how to live together as a
couple etc etc. if life was easy, it'd be boring.
if u like her u should go for it, how u do it is up to ur style,
and it's you that she will fall in love with so there's really not
much point in asking how to chase her. of course we all know the
"standard" things on how to woo a girl, and there's tonnes of this
online for u to read up if u so desire. personally i dun
bother.
one thing to add should u decide to chase her. SHOW her u like her
and care for her, don't just tell her. telling someone straight in
the face "hey i like u, can i chase u" to me is just pressurising,
and redundant. if u show it, and she's got half a brain (or heart)
she'll know and feel it. if she can't then she's probably not worth
it. btw, girls are MORE receptive to guys liking them then guys are
to gals liking them.
ok enuff for now... keep us updated! and dun be so sad!!
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how would u noe its infatuation... after all they are good
friends, i presume would be some time liaoz.. plus.. he probably
has seen her flaws and stuff. yet still likes that person alot.
maybe it could be the real deal
