Originally posted by peacely:
they would critise how bad /useless he is.this kind of thing.
anyway, although it hurts a lot, but i am not going to take into
consideraton these kind of direct insults. my dad always gave bad
comments w/o showing any kind of evidence. thats why i always
ignore and be tolerant of him. he used to say things like, " he is
one whos selfish , shrewd and make use of ppl" but from what i see
, i doubt so.
i knoe that love is blind and it always prevent you
from seeing a person's bad pts. but come to think of it, how can
one control their own emotions abt this?
Hmm... Your dad's pretty old...? How's business for him..?
my sis got gd grades.but my bro is quite lazy and slack, but his
grades are avg
Hmm...
one of the biggest unreasonable acts, i think u can refer 2 the
prev topic i posted : confused and insecure
You think he's the one being unreasonable or you...?
i used to pick up quarrels with him(big and small things) nearly
every month. screaming and venting my frustration on him. coz i got
a quick temper , whenever i m angry , my emotions always run high (
and i am very sturrbon in admiting my own mistakes coz i want to be
the winner of the quarrel) but after a while , i will forget and
cool down. the quarrels wen on coz he couldnt make me cool
down
my parents , esp mother says" forget abt him and find someone else,
since cant get together" BUT i fee that "easier said than
done"
"Easier said than done"...? Yup... Perhaps you're right...?
we are both each other 1st gf n bf .thats why when probs comes up,
sometimes loss in handling it.
Ok....
Yup... Up to this point... If my ASSUMPTION is true, the main
issue is indeed YOU.... I still don't know your dad's sign... But
he might be a little going offside for a while... (though he's
still a crucial character...)
You're the main STIR of the whole issue... Your parents are rather
'inexperienced' I would presume in 'modern dating'... Especially so
for your dad... He should be kinda 'backward'... Your mum should be
able to accept things better than him...
Your parents are naturally PROTECTIVE of you... Because you're
their daughter... Because you love them... And because you're a
girl....
I'm kinda 'surprised' by the qualities your bf has displayed... And
not sure how far they've been degraded...? Hmm... I think you can
'sense' it too...? That's why you're rather relunctant to give him
up...? Giving him up earlier would be for the better of him but a
loss on your part... (If he hasn't change much yet...)
Your bf is kinda a 'rare species' for his characteristics..?
Perhaps he've already changed (or beginning to change..?) I don't
know... But probably because of the fact that this is his 1st
relationship so he's still 'fresh'... Which is actually a GOOD
thing....
If you combine BOTH the MAIN REPLIES I've made to you in this
thread & in your previous thread, you should roughly get the
whole picture....?
~good luck....
