he's going to leave you if you keep writing with the silly
toggle caps on...
to your question, how? if he's not going to accept you as you are,
will you pretend to be something else? how long will that charade
last? it's a lie, you know, the charade... will you be happy being
something you are not?
what most nice guys need is for the girl to love them... once in a
while, let them mope around, have their fire-gazing time, let them
have a beer or three with their own friends without being
accountable for each action they take.. and understand that we are
only human... we make mistakes..
ultimately, if your guy loves you, he'll give his right arm, leg
and eye to make you happy.. don't take advantage of him.. he'll
know.. be hurt and still accept it like a man.. after a while,
he'll crack as resentment will take its toll...
i guess what i'm ranting about is this: understand what LOVE really
is.. then love him... if he loves you right back, he's yours for
life if you do not take advantage of him...