xUe_ReN SG i dun think so... i think best friends sometimes doesn't really have to talk much in details... they should know agar-agar what the other is thinking...
wuming78 SG yeah.. but o cos u dun haf to. wat i mean is best frens shud haf the confidence to share good news and problems and secrets, and o cos haf the respect 4 each other, and care and concern etc etc..
Xiao Long Nu SG actualy sometimes..u already know wat the other party will react and says...so sometimes ppl dn realy tok to each other more
loneryu00 SG & U like yr best fren (in my case, buddy) for his/her/its good pts, bad pts & ugly pts... U like yr buddy for wat he/she/it is... can sae its like BGR... only its no kissing, petting or watsoever involved... dat much...
edLow SG For they will be able to notice tat you look trouble. For they will be able to notice tat you look happy. And they will usually ask wat happen to you when u kept it for days. And they will respect u by waiting for u to tell them ur problem. Becos they are ur best frds? I guess the difference between best frds and normal frds is.. U need not speak anything and somehow he understand u. And of course a person whom u can share ur troubles with!
wuming78 SG isnt tt sad den? but well.. we shud learn to suspend judgement. dun mean u guess tts how he/she going to react tts y u dun tell. o cos the listener mus learn not to jump to conclusions too fast and let the person finish first. i guess the person who speaks mus be clear and mus be able to put his/her point across well. u having a problem and thinking of telling ur best fren but u guess u know how he/she wil react to wat u say, so u r reluctant to tell?
Xiao Long Nu SG i tink...even me care abt my fren..i wont tell her i care abt her 1....bt i understand...n she understand...is jus we dn speak to each other face to face we care for each other...is like quite throw face leh...awaraard situation...hw to explain leh............. bt sometime i tink guys can b best frens aso!
Xiao Long Nu SG u know...sometimes best fren cant be too close...........u know each other too well liao...till u know wat she is goin to do nex...n wat u goin to do nex?
wuming78 SG well i think if both of u understand wat each other feels and thinks and dun wish to put them out expressly tts fine. but when let there r misunderstandings or miscommunications den they shud be trashed out asap. but if u feel like telling him/her u care abt him/her cos he/she is ur best fren, no need feel shy one lah. i think he/she will be glad to hear tt!
wuming78 SG yeah.. we each haf our own privacy.. as we agreed no need to let the other party know everything, but o cos if u wan to u shud be able to do so, unless ur best fren feels uncomfortable being told everything. but u r realli vague... dun realli understand wat u trying to drive at
Xiao Long Nu SG thank u for ur sincerity in replying n analysing my q... although i aso dono hw to explain..hahahaha...nvm
