Replying to the ur topic line 
Stop self-pity immediately.
Let me share with you something I've told my gd fren the other day.
A guy who was 'ditched' n avoided by the gal he liked, came onto my
fren like a love lifebuoy (she used to like him). She was
disgusted, I felt the same way and despised the guy much. Though my
fren sympathized with him since she had been thru exactly the same
before to find the confidence in oneself by hoping tt someone loves
them back. But I told her tt he din deserve any and he is not going
to help himself anyway.
Today, if a person wants love from someone, be a worthy one 1st.
Dun self-pity. A person who does so cant possibly find anyone
worthy. Improve oneself n be a person who deserves to love n be
loved in return. Even though my fren isnt attached, I know tt she
deserves someone but the person does not appear at this time of her
life but later only.
Therefore, the deserving ones will never have to panick, they r the
worthy one waiting to be hooked 
