Depending on the nature of the problem and the cause, like what
.-'Des|reE'-. mention. First of all, in matters of heart it has to
go through me and most of the time it will be solve from there. I
like to rant to people to hear their views and at times I will
remember a few phrase, statement, quotes from friends and probably
use it to solve myself. 
In all other matters, my gf and my good friends. 
Cheers