is there such a thing called loving too much?

harryryan SG

happened to me... i like the gal so much that i think i gave her too much pressure... u like some one of course want that person to love back rite?am i being selfish here?
jealousy....if you care too much ...ur partner will say u r possesive but in actual fact u just love them too much to lose them....

have anyone had their share of possesive bf/gf s?
how did u deal with them than?

Yunhaier SG

No such thing as love too much to lose them. Rolling Eyes

No such thing as too much love; love is always enough to go around.

Simple respect of decisions and personal space is what love always gives - do you?

Cheers

cHeR|sH^LoVe SG

i think u gave her too much pressure lor.. think theres no such tohing thats lovings too much.. how can someone measure love.. its from the heart... n loving someone hoping someone to lov u back isn't selfish.. i think everyone wants that too,, but if that person dun love u.. den u should step back n gif her her freedom lor...but u will feel jealous.. theres nth u can do abt that...
if you care too much its not possessive.. its over caring right... i think possessive is restricting someone to do things.. ,etc.. n possessive is due to insecurity...
id u love someone too much too lose them.. wel i dunno wad does that mean..

anyway those are onli wad i think lor..

harryryan SG

i loved her too much n wanted to do things for her,,,did not know i was giving her pressure ….

loneryu00 SG

Laughing
I suggest U cool it... BTW hows yr illness? better? Wink

Devil1976 SG

Originally posted by harryryan:
happened to me... i like the gal so much that i think i gave her too much pressure... u like some one of course want that person to love back rite?am i being selfish here?

Nope... Not really selfish... More like natural...? But note that when ya talk about loving someone and expecting that someone to love you back that's PROVIDED that you're both already in a relationship.... I presume you're not talking about one which you're already in a BGR with... In this case, the girl has VERY RIGHT to reject you not to mention if she's not willing to contribute any love to you... Just IMAGINE, 5-6 guys going after a girl and expecting the SAME back in return... VERY BUSY huh...? Especially if she have got no interest in them...? Is it a NECCESSITY to entertain them? Doing that just for the sake of doing it...?

jealousy....if you care too much ...ur partner will say u r possesive but in actual fact u just love them too much to lose them....

Different people have different ways of defining what's 'caring' and what's 'too much'... In a relationship, it's about TWO PEOPLE... (For normal BGR) The union don't work only under YOUR DEFINITIONS.....