I am repeating myself for the thousand and one times, and I am
still repeating it again: Anyone have the stand, the position and
rights to source for their own virgin girlfriend, PROVIDED their
themselves are virgin. HOWEVER, if you get a gf, who is not a
virgin - realise this thing: Your initial love, impression and
everything isn't base on such mundune issues (because you never
knew about it anyway, unless she told you about herself while you
are still friends) - instead it was based on the feelings, emotions
and her character. Dump her and you ain't any better than those
jerks who had they share of fun with her and left. You should
instead treasure her and appreciate her more - because she will
know that you are much better than them. 
About holding hands, kissing - the only damn way you could be in
such situations is when you chase a secondary school girl and last
all the way till your marriage and marry her. By then, looking at
statistic, how many secondary school girls are mature in thinking.
and WHAT makes you think they would fall for you either? etc, etc.
Did you ever have a decent and proper (no one week kind or few days
kind) gf before? I doubt so right? Because if you have - you would
open your eyes to the real world.
P.S: You have to suit yourself to the world and not ask the world
to bend to you.
Cheers
