right.. u stay on in a reln becos of a "motto"?
well that's wat it implies anyway.
the cliche says "ai qing shi bu ke yi mian qiang de" (sorree hor my
cheena very bad dunno correct anot) and it's true isn't it?
i do agree with cherishing wat u have now, but i find that
statement rather irrelevant here lor. i mean it seems he is
treating her in a less than satisfactory way, and she is still to
cherish him? wat if he starts beating her up? is she still to
cherish him?
the problem here isn't really about cherishing or not cherishing
one another. it's about (from the little info given) someone (the
guy) just losing interest over time. he slowly stopped loving her
(if IN FACT he ever loved her in the first place). i think wat
needs to be done is to trash things out, and talk about it. cheesy
is obviously upset that he's ignoring her, and taking the "soft
route" to his attention, not wanting to upset him. i reckon she
should take her stand and voice out to him, call him up and say u
wanna meet and talk and be firm and assertive.
if he's avoiding her constantly then wat kind of bf is he? of
course u could choose to swallow it and wait for his timing, or u
could just be a strong woman and do wat u have to do.
i dun believe in staying on in a reln where one person doesn't love
the other (anymore). sometimes it may be VERY hard to end it becos
of all kinds of reasons, been together for very long, timing not
right (to end it), family and friends all know each other etc etc,
but when there's no love, the others mean jack sh[/i]it.
so cheesy, hope u can talk to him to determine how he feels about u
now. not to cherish blindly and not knowing wat the hell is going
on in his head.
