swimtrunks SG ya.. jes wanna some opinions on this topic... cause i keep encountering this. Some times i get to know a girl, we just get chatty, as though like very good friends like that, just wanna get the conversation going tat kind of situation. but then.. i'm not sure is this her personality to tok hearitly to every person she noes? or she's kinda interested in me or wad??..... Any hints to catch? w'd like to hear some views.... hehehe
Ragnarok SG Erm.....well....she might be interested to talk to you or she may be interested to know about you. Some girls are chatty by nature while some are quiet and passive. If your friend is chatty.....then its good. At least you won't be bored as she always initiates to chat with you. Just don't think too much and don't take it too seriously.
whiteillum SG tat is one thing u will never know unless u ask so pick up ur courage and open ur mouth I used to to go out with my female frens and we are arm in arm one
whiteillum SG oh one thing to add is not the gal give wrong signal is jus that us guys like mis-interpret and get too sensitive
libido SG Very difficult lah, better dun make them defensive, wait until you are really sure then go to the killing.
Honeybunz SG maybe can try to make her jealous??? I know guys usually like to use that method. or at least guys around do tend to try that on me.
Honeybunz SG If you're not interested in her, dun bother. But if you are, then go tell her. No need to find out if she is interested or just being friendly.
swimtrunks SG of coz i'm interested... most of em r cutteeeeeeeeeee but then.... i shy n pai seh lehz... ppl frendily come chat chat.. denz suddenly say 'I Like u' ... a bit of a turn-off right?
MagicOne SG Just chat first, slowly take your time to know her. After knowing her, flirt and drop her hint to you liking her. Trust me, ladie s are super sharp in this area. If they detect you like her and she is fond of you, Flower Blossom. Sad case, she call you less and reluctant to call you (call ratio 5:1), then buddy sorry. White Flag. Hope for the best in your case.
Honeybunz SG Just chat chat and let them get to know you. When they are comfortable with you, then say "I like you". Nothing to be afraid of, even there is a chance of getting rejected. Girls get rejected too at times.
Master -_- SG Dear Swimtrunk, Like us guys, girls are unfathomable creatures. You just can't understand what they are thinking. In my opinion, the best relationships develop more slowly from original friendships because you are having a deeper relationship with someone you have actually gotten to know rather than just going out with someone you just met who seems sexually attractive because they have a nice body and big boobs ! Keep the conversation going and lasting. Who knows what one of them may grow into? Or what the next friend you make will bring? Friendships can last forever and can bring you great happiness... make the most of your time with your friends and be patient. You seem like a really nice person and I'm sure a girlfriend for you will come along soon if you just continue to be your caring self. Cheers
nodoubt_iamher SG Ermm..agree with wat master said.. Girls are sometimes flickle-minded. We dun noe wat we want exactly. So getting chatty does not necessary means interested. Needs somemore times to noe whether a girl like u or not. For me.. I need to go out with the guys and see how it is like before i noe i'm interested or not. ya...an outing always tells everything...
