Originally posted by Yunhaier:
You are in SO good position. Damn lucky you din (or haven't make
any rash decision yet) - as pure as a white sheet, you
[b]willstand to succeed if you make the right moves,
decisions and method to get her. Well, quite honoured for you to
mention me especially, well, with the trust in me, I would assist
in any way I could. 
Every girl is different and are subjected to different sort of
characteristic that will draw them. To win your love, you have to
understand yourself (Love yourself before loving others theory),
your love and the external environment, which form the 3
fundamental pillars as you scale yourself up to your goal.
You realise she is that sort of character that draws you. You take
time to understand and get to know her - which is SO essential to
pave for your long term success. There is one thing you have to
believe me: Always avoid expressing yourself
bluntly; everything has a time and place for it - you only express
yourself when you 'KNOW' you can get her.
People may ask; how you know whether you will definitely get
her?
Suggested stratagy use: 'Ai ren shi tong, ku, bei ai shi xing fu'
Theory.
Excuse me? What am I talking about?
In literal translation, it simply means 'To love is woe, being
loved is bliss.' because of the risk that is involved when you love
someone and not being reciprocated. To chase someone with a 'clean
sheet' like you - you have to MAKE her fall for you and not to
chase her (Art of Seduction). Furthermore by maintaining your
feelings a secret - you create this spell to entangle her. To
longer you take to create your spell (refering to the tension you
are squeezing from her) the higher your chance. - Time is a good
resource, learn to plan and work within a good frame.
Practical usage:
When she is friendly to you, reciprocate back - they key is that:
Although you ain't her close, best friend, act like one. Most
probably she wouldn't mind and you would be leading it on. Psycho
yourself that she is a close, good friend and not someone you wanna
chase (it makes things much easier - although it sounds easier than
done).
After this initial invasion - I suggestion body language. This is a
killer because of the stratagy you are using, body language is
invisible to appearence like a submarine in water. For example when
you call for her, tugged her arm, etc. When you speaking with her,
look not gaze into her eyes (To prevent people from realising that
you fall for her). Gaze only if you are out with her alone -
suggested usage: occasionally.
Always attempt to go out 1 v 1 with her and never bring her out to
meet your friend first, which is one of the worst thing guys would
do since history. Why? There are many reasons written in my book
and to bring all of them out - I think it would spell 'Long Essay'.
Go out with her 1 v 1, whether on reason basis (studying) or for a
normal date.
When communicating with her - worst thing you can do is to stress
yourself because woman being sensitive creature would pick the
signal and you lose part of the battle. ALWAYS be yourself and most
importantly: The confidence! To chase someone without self
confidence is like fighting a war without weapons. If possible get
to listen to her matters of her heart - my suggestion is my
signature - if you don't open your hearts to others, others would
be close to you. You could start the ball rolling when the TIME is
right, to say your views, definition, etc about matters of love,
etc. She will be drawn and reply you with her own definition, etc.
One bird kill 2 stone.
I) You get to understand her better.
II) You get to see if she is really suitable for you anot.
Humor and being yourself in conversation is the element to leave
very good impression and the desire for future dating. Her heart
will fall, provided if you maintain yourself well and kept your
feelings to yourself first.
Following information is adapted from the Art of Love, War and
Seduction - CloUdiSm.
Cheers
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this is expected of yun or rather characteristic of yun. super
long replies. what did u get for GP ? 150marks over 100?
