My Girlfriend is not a virgin how?

last SG · 2003-04-12T09:28:54+00:00

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its not that im trying to be selfish but when i think of it it sucks.. how to imagine that your loved used to sleep with someone-else and him all over her? how? Crying or Very sad

sgboy2004 SG

it is common nowadays that the girls hav broken their hymens...

wat is more impt is the love for her, physical things should be secondary.

She could hav loved her ex veri much and they have agreed to do it, willingly b4.

But now she is with u....luv her for wat she is, not wat u want her to be

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Professor sgboy2004

Master -_- SG

If you love someone, it doesn't matter if she is a virgin or not. Unless you wanna be that guy who is aspiring the first to break her virginity only to dump her sooner or later.

Lets put it this way, you have like/love a particular brand of jeans and you have searched the high seas for it and only to find it in a 2nd hand shop. Do you still consider whether the jeans have been used or not? Unless you have too much to offer and immediately dispose it after using it.

Same goes for your girl. Ask yourself whether the feelings you have for her is indeed genuine or not? Regardless of your thinking, treat girls like what you treat ur life as.

Mr. Green

Forever84 SG

Yea well,
would you have sex with her if she was a virgin
then would you have dump her 1 day
Rolling Eyes

evererin SG

Virgin so impt meh?

Parka SG

What if you don't know she's not a virgin???

So I presume knowledge is a barrier to you now. Rolling Eyes

harryryan SG

u r a loser if u leave her cos of that.u might not be e first but u can be e last,ain't that enuff?

ScorpioX SG

chasity is impt... but it is not everything... in a relationship.. it is the feelings that really counts...

Wind SG

Hard to say I don't totally mind as well... but if I really love her deep enough, I wouldn't care whether she is or not. But I will definitely prefer not knowing, or try harder not to even find out.

Aiya... you love her, she loves you, good enough isn't it. Why dig up the past?

sgboy2004 SG

hi...u are back...how's your forum?

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Baby sgboy2004

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i understand that it is not that impt. but it is very bothering to me.. w=always when im not witrh her and when im all alone by myself i would think abt the happy times that we are together.. then suddenly a disturbing image of her having sex with her ex. it spoils the whole thing.. its very taxing and it drains me out.. i need to voice this out... i love my girlfriend and there is a 90 percent chance of me marrying her.. but how do i handle all those thoughts?
Crying or Very sad

kimmorger SG

wei the most impt thing===r u a virgin urself?if ur not then dun kao bei hahaha! Laughing

puppylove SG

did she tell u she wasn a virgin? or did u ask? if u did ask.. then u should just go kill urself Mad why mind her not being a virgin? if she told u.. that means she's being true to you!! how can u say things like that!! Evil or Very Mad think bout her feelings.. how would u feel if ur gf tells u that "i don like the fact that u are not a virgin?"

Acrux SG

It doesn't really matter if she is a virgin or not. Because that is something she did in the past while she was with someone else. If it is the present and she being with you slept with someone else, If it were me I would definitely feel disgusted.

If u understand what i Mean

kimmorger SG

yup!i totally agree wif u wor! Smile

[ X ] & [ L ] SG

WEll nowadays all now V lioa..

but this way mean better sex..... hee lolx..

Why not right GUYS....!!!! Mr. Green

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Originally posted by puppylove:

did she tell u she wasn a virgin? or did u ask? if u did ask.. then u should just go kill urself why mind her not being a virgin? if she told u.. that means she's being true to you!! how can u say things like that!! think bout her feelings.. how would u feel if ur gf tells u that "i don like the fact that u are not a virgin?"
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abt half a yr ago she told me abt this.. then i was quite affected.. cos she was my first girl friend..

whiteillum SG

i agree
u love ur gf
not her virginity

Mercury_1 SG

It’s hard to accept esp if she is your 1st Gf, something similiar happened to me some time back. But as hard to accept as it is if the relationship between you two is going great try your best to overcome it, not easy though but the best things dun always come smoothly. Good luck!

boy in blues SG

not sure also. Question but i believe that if u love her as much as u should, u should not mind her past one bit. No matter what her past. Cheers. Smile