sometimes life doesn't work with "theories". you are most
definitely correct, but unfortunately life is not that simple that
it can be worked out with logical reasoning all the time.
i feel that unless she wants to further persue this "reln"
(friendship, crush or watever u wanna call it) further then it's up
to her to. it should have nothing to do with the guy's gf, true,
but i can't help and think about the crush she has on the guy, so
is this healthy that she meets him up while he's attached?
this is also not mentioning the guy's motive for meeting up. he's
having probs (i assume) with his gf, he knows or maybe can tell
that detsub has a crush on him and may (we'd like to assume) just
meet up as friends and discuss his problems since she's been such a
great confidante, but still water runs deep. it's never that
simple.
btw, has anyone thought about the fact that she has a crush him
THAT'S WHY she's so attentive to him and his problems. of course
she (and others) can say that she's just caring for him as a
friend. the sub-conscious works in ways that are more powerful than
the conscious sometimes. ESPECIALLY when it comes to romantic
inclinations.
detsub, i would tread on this path carefully. some say if i do like
a guy, who cares just go for it. got gf or not bochap. some say
never to touch an attached person. think u need to have ur own say.
and proceed accordingly.
