lemme give my opinion here which might be somehow negative,
pardon me.
the so-called "social problem" u r facing now is actually because u
r being selective in ur target audience. what do i mean by
that?
take a simple scenario for example, u r taking an elevator in a
certain office building. inside the same elevator, there is a
another 2 girls. then suddenly there's a breakdown. the elevator
stops, but the lighting inside is still working. u can hear voices
from outside that help is coming soon, but gotta wait a long
while.
so while waiting what will u do? chat up wif the 2 girls?
i wud say it depends. depends on whether they r ur target audience.
put it bluntly:
1. what if the 2 girls r pretty?
2. what if the 2 girls r ugly?
3. what if 1 girl is pretty and 1 is ugly?
u want my guess?