How do u noe he like you?

firefly SG

Juz wondering how do you noe whether the guy likes you? In a sense, like if he sms you everyday, ask hows ya day etc. Does it mean that he like you? However, those are pretty neutral sms.. He will ask you out too.. Met once and he ask you out the 2nd time..

N how much initiative a gal muz take?

kimmorger SG

if he everyday msg u without fail, then shd b he likes u lor....if not, where got ppl so boliao msg 4 no reason everyday, haha.gal no need take initiativ 1 lah,,,just wait 4 the guy 2 make his move lor..kekeke Smile

Cerebral_Assassin SG

from the looks of it, the guy is interested in u...i put it in a more tactful way of saying it.
anyway, as the girl, u can dun make any initiative but u must at least show some postive signs if not the guy unless he is xing xin man man de ren or full of skill and experience to chase girls, it is hard for him to keep up with his moves mah...

sgboy2004 SG

Stare in his eyes, and ask him if he loves u or not...

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firefly SG

Wink Kimmorger and cerebrak_assassin, act i do agree that ger no need take initiative kind.. juz sit n wait for the guy to take the steps.. Enjoy that wooing process...How nicez.. haha =P

But somethings make me realise to take some... initiative might not be tat bad afterall.. cos at time those who take some initiative get what they wan.. To take initiative is definately NOT ME at all.. so its like so difficult....... So juz wonder in most cases how gals take those teeny weeny initiative.. eww..like so difficult....

Sg boy... ehmm.. stare in his eyes? haha u always do tat? Razz If i would do tat, i think some screw loose up there.. haha

browniebaobao SG

What if he calls me every night? 11 plus or 12 plus before he goes to bed? Cannot be just frens? Rolling Eyes

jeramy SG

cannot dun take initiative one la. must give him signs then u are interested also. if he keep initiative but you dun respond at all, how can make it? the guy will get disheartened man.

dumbdumb! SG

ya lor… girls should hint to us whether we are on the right track or not!

sgboy2004 SG

wat type of hint u wan?

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evererin SG

I mean,everynite call u....abit got feelings for u lor...he just wan to see if u got any feelings for him and drop a hint...like maybe,u say,i reali like chat wif u...if only...if only...hm...just keep pondering lor..then the guy will find got chance tat u like him back...then he will feel tat this liking is two-sided then he will start to ask u out all this..win yr favor lor....but if u dun like this guy at aall..dun drop any hints at all..and just tell him u like chatting wif him as a fren and fren only...best to tell earli,so the guy nvr develop too much feelings first le lor..If u hqve a liking for him,drop more hints for him..if hes stupid,just tell him u find him nice....make more obvious hints lor...Hope u guys there can find true love soon! Embarassed

sgboy2004 SG

mi like u leh

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browniebaobao SG

Is this meant for me? If it is, then..... Some people just can't/don't want to get their feelings right...hard to explain..

Parka SG

Cerebral_Assassin SG

some of the things u girls can do to hint.....
this comes from my personal experience lar
maybe to some girls these r not hints. feel free to comment
(1) email to keep in contact everyday or regularly if u dun dare to call him up
(2) tell/sms him u will miss him
(3) ask him if his chest area feels pain if u r sick
(4) ask him to see u home after a 1 on 1 date b4 he offer to do it or maybe if he ask, say yes immediately
(5) call him up to chat/ask him out, say wanna give him treat becoz he nice to u
(6) say u wanna see this movie very nice and ask him if he likes this type of movie then full stop wait for him jio u out
(7) say u jealous he treat his buddies to chiong or whatever
( Cool say u enjoy his company and dun mind spending time with him alone
(9) ask him to go and meet u(as in pick u up take transport 2gether or drive) for a date with him
i think some of the above r damn obvious to guys, but then again, it might not be true. correct me if i'm wrong girls