hmm...
I guess there are 2 sides to it.. had a friend who was kinda
dumped. Even though we all told him to forget it, he still
persevered and although nothing is certain, the girl is at least
still willing to see him...because she is that important to him, he
is willing to suffer (in a way) cause he plays 2nd fiddle to her
friends. But he is happy in his own way.
I've been down that road before, and its just really painful.
Liking a girl so much, yet knowing that you are never as important
to her as she is to u. Hence after that I've taken a more relaxed
approach to relationships. Have confidence in yourself, know what
you are worth. If she doesn't like you for who you are, then what
makes you think that she is going to learn to like you? Its a
possibility, but its a gamble. If u don't feel really comfortable
around her, or are constantly trying to impress her or find
something to talk about/say just to keep the conversation going,
then maybe she's not for you. If however you guys are fine, its
just the matter of you wanting her more than she wants you, then
turn inwards.
Its a funny thing, but I've found that girls place more importance
to personal traits (in guys) such as confidence, power,
personality, and humour. Build up your confidence and your
communication skills-go out there and let your hair down, relax and
have fun, stop worrying so much about what pple think of you or
what kind of image you project. Learn to laugh at yourself more,
and let people laugh with you.
Girls can sense these things. As long as there is a reason for her
to respect and look up to you, she's going to come back to you..at
that time, it will be for you to decide if u still love her the
same way. 
