killer
so i see... that's y u have been having sleepless nights....
in this case.. i agree wif yunhaier.....
u'd juz be a substitute...
given his persistance... ur rejecting him... will cause him to
pursue u more..... one thing is... seperate job from personal
life...
if ur job is on the hooks because it depends on him, look for
higher ups to SETTLE him, can complain abt harassment
and back to personal life.. if u dun wish to let him harass u, u
can discuss this wif ur family, and if ur boss still wants to goto
ur place to look u up
can alwiz ask for social security, call police for help
if the normal methods dun work, i guess my EXTREME methods shld
work
=)