loneryu00 SG Its normal... But for me I see 1st... maybe I get close to da buddy... I have complete trust in "my" gf wat... then later decide wat to do lor... BUT if got wat snatch my GF, betray me or wat... I m well known for revenge... I make sure da "guilty" party "Qiu Shen Bu Neng, Qiu Si Bu De"... Muah ha ha ha ha ha ha.................
M©+square SG We should not seek revenge if that's the case. BEcos it takes two hands to clap. Remember that it takes only one event to change a person's life(and it might take one function or one dte, one meal to fall for a person), and i'm going to share with you and the rest of the people here too. If any one leaves and chooses the other person....wish them well.
loneryu00 SG Har har... actually I noe revenge is no good... hurts da avenger MORE than da hurt... so dun worry! & do share wat U wanna share hor... as do I lah!
[ X ] & [ L ] SG Originally posted by M©+square: I wonder if you're a male of a female. (no sacarsm meant) Your opinions may be right. But how come if he have any fancy on her or whatever it is. Can't a casual meal be done? Why does it have to be a function date? Hmm....i'm questioning if being a function date could do much 'catching up', personally it's better to concentrate 'catching up with one another' in a restuarant or somewhere. Well well, it may be very simple for a guy to have simple intentions of just seeing a friend smile and he'll be happy. Does the intention stop there??? I personally doubt so. Let's bring the attention to boyfriend. I wonder how does BF feel now. *wonders* Let's ask our topic starter. [/b]To M©+square: WEll i am a male... Did i disappoint you.!!! lolx... Hm. today i just went for my Uni medical review... Saw many babes sia.. saw one quite attractive girl... i lok at her and she look at me and smile... She den walk towards me and say how am i? i was stun. Then i realise that is one of my long long god sister... Ha... Sometimes life is really ironical and amusing.. lolx.. Anyway thst another story... K back to e topics by Miss Wendy.. Well, its a nice function and perhaps it mean sth special abt that night function and he very much wanted to shre it woth Wendy. He dun know mind if she is there as a friend. As long she is there he is glad and happy. I got a feeling even if that function was to announce that he is e most talent soldier and watever which he should be feeling elated abt.. But hey one always want to shre his/her happy moment with someone that he/she like. Be it a BGR relationshp or just as frenz. I too sometime would like to share some happy moment with someone even if it is my frenz... In his yearning heart, he must have always wanted to ask e ger out but he keep on holding back. Cos he knows that he does not stand a chance. however every time before he close his eyes on his bed, he would take a deep breath and look into e far far away sky. and ask Mr Moon whether how is she been all this while.. Been a real long time since he had a good look at her. And hapen that one day he got a function perhaps its really abt himself, perhaps not. but he would like to share with someone that he feel special with. and he at last summoned his courage to ask this wonderful ger to be his partner on that happy night of his. but at last e leading actoress did not turn up.. wow he must have feel realli sad abt it. Even if he got e whole world in his hands... Anyway from e way he stand his approach this is wat i feel abt it.. Well its urs decision to go or not to. Hm.. ur BF i feel should allowed you to go. anywayit a chance to c how u treat him as well... it like a test in heart.. lolx... End of e day if there is trust and understanding mind bet e two , they should be able to teat against time! Hm.. make mi rem a phase: Most woman pray to God that they would marry e man they love, while i will pray to God that i would love e man i marry... How does it sounds...
M©+square SG To [ X ] & [ L ]: I figured out that you're a male when you expose your gender in other threads. And nope, ain't disappointed at all. If her buddy's intention is purely just that he wants to share his happiness with someone he likes. I believe the honor of invitation is his mother - HA! that's not the point anyway...but you know what i mean....and yes there's a tinge of sarcasm in there. Well...we could only call him up and and have a talk wih him to find out what does he actually want from Wendy. With your perspective...it's nice and touching, but it's from you and your thoughts, not what Wendy's buddy is thinking. You made some very good point in regards of having a special friendship and bringing it to a higher level. I appreciate you in support that ideal relationship between opposite sex. Cos i believe in close and special friendship between guy and girl too. But by him calling her up after a some period of interval. I refer to the quote below: Hmmm.... I'm not very sure if it's that right for him to tell her how important or special she is to him and how much he needs her to be around for the function....i guess it's sometimes too sudden not to doubt. One Year..... *Raise Eyebrow* If they were to have continual contact with one another and he invited her for the funtion. Why not? And why are there doubts? I wish Wendy's buddy is the guy you have described. I will rest on this case here. Last Point..... I'm sure you're into romanticism.... Last Last Point Most woman pray to God that they would marry e man they love, while i will pray to God that i would love e man i marry... I don't understand how in the world did this thread remind you of this quote....
[ X ] & [ L ] SG Hmmm.... I'm not very sure if it's that right for him to tell her how important or special she is to him and how much he needs her to be around for the function....i guess it's sometimes too sudden not to doubt. One Year..... *Raise Eyebrow* If they were to have continual contact with one another and he invited her for the funtion. Why not? And why are there doubts? I wish Wendy's buddy is the guy you have described. I will rest on this case here. Last Point..... I'm sure you're into romanticism.... Last Last Point Most woman pray to God that they would marry e man they love, while i will pray to God that i would love e man i marry... I don't understand how in the world did this thread remind you of this quote.... ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well.. true that i am not her buddy.. but after one year out of all pple he still rem her. And so much wanted her to come.. i guess he must have suffer all these while... anyway where is WENDY while we are talking abt this guy... lolx... we chat as thou is our problem come to think of it.. lolx... Hai.. how u define romanticism.. i dun really consider myself on such things.. But i will make her feel wonderful and comfortable when with me... Hm.. regarding e phase: Dun know why i suddenly rem.. u are refering to how it rem mi izzit cos e subject is refering to female..?? Actually i was not refering to e subject but instead e whole theme...
M©+square SG Oh...if you insist that poor guy has been suffering all the while. Ok..i'll let it rest. The quote? Oh...yeah. But it's not as if she's making a decision to marry the right guy..... Yeah, choosing the right guy is the not the theme. I'm tired...going to sleep.....i'll let Wendy speak her part. Good night to you [ X ] & [ L ] -.- Zzzzz
M©+square SG Oh...if you insist that poor guy has been suffering all the while. Ok..i'll let it rest. The quote? Oh...yeah. But it's not as if she's making a decision to marry the right guy..... Yeah, choosing the right guy is the not the theme. I'm tired...going to sleep.....i'll let Wendy speak her part. Good night to you [ X ] & [ L ] -.- Zzzzz
jOhO SG hahaha more like utter confusion. my handphone got about 5 wendy's. of course not all from here.
loneryu00 SG Dat many? I only noe 2-3 Wendys in my life... not including da 1s here lah... Wendy IS a common name hor?
jOhO SG hmm never really thought so until recently... i thot the likes of "karen" and "joanne" would be more common, but i only know of one karen in my hp (and i store using her chinese name anyway, cos that's wat i call her) and one joanne. oh well... *shrug*
IamAngeline SG Hey! When did I becum Wendy?! My name is Angeline.... sobzzzz sad....... life is really bad for me.not only sick and... I had another argument with my bf yesterday... very sad....
loneryu00 SG Dis names r common, dats y got NEW 1s pop out... like Jackerina, Niki, Jesselina, etc, etc... all jumbled up!!! BTW, y quarrel again? (sickness can heal slowly) but wats wif da case btwn yr bf & u?
IamAngeline SG he's not in gd mood yesterday... ok i explain a little more clearer. He likes to play MJ(mahJong) and he has been playing since very young. he has a very bad point when playing mj is he very strict and he is very superstitious. Yesterday when I go to his house for dinner he was like very fed up and say that his niece has annoyed him until all his cards becum very bad.. so later on he asked me to play loh... before playing I keep asking him whether he's has any thing to tell me cus I see him so fed up I tot i might be able to share a couple of whatever but he insists that there's nothing.. so i didn't want to force him either just keep playing.. I am a very blur player and just started learning MJ also(because of him) he is the kind of person I say liaoz very serious when comes to MJ so even I he also will like reprimand if I play wrong. I dunno like but I will always tend to "zhar hu"(game wrong). and yesh yesterday i did it again. I didn't did it purposely and when he saw it, he scolded me + he bad mood. by then i already so guilty I no mood to play already. when his' turn to play, i just rushed into his bedroom and cried loh, I cried for an hour.. i feel so sad...and + i'm having migraine very irritated.. and i caused him to lose $$.. his family tends to gamble quite a lot like every week also got loh, sometimes we may not be playing mahjong but playing poker cards. okay i'm a kind of person that will get very upset when I see my bf lose a lot of $$. so he ever says that during gambling if lose $$ dun be upset because there's win and lose.. so i try to change.. lately it's him that keep blowing up temper to me when he lose $$ etc... I'm really trying my best.... I'm very stressed too... by work or by my bf.. my parents too.. I will feel that my parents side my bf more than me when it comes to arguments, often they didn;t even know the real situation and just assume that it's all my fault.... I am not saying they dun love me, but they always assume things....
loneryu00 SG ...... I tink U 2 need some time to be on yr own & cool off... NEXT time call him out instead of goin to his hse... (U shld noe y) then find a place to have a good tok & thrash out things regarding dat happen lately... dats all I can advice... coz I believe others got better 1s & I feel I have no right to comment... (dunno y) "Wo Bu Zhi Dao..." "Wo Zhen De Bu Zhi Dao...!!"
