I dont love my wife already... what should i do??

last SG · 2003-03-26T11:08:32+00:00

Just when I think, "Surely this person has reached and encapsulates the limits of Internet tedium" you go and push the boundary even further. Just as the str...

holymannn SG

I just married 2 years and having a kid now, but i dont love my wife anymore. what can i do? i dont even want make love with her... please help Crying or Very sad

sgboy2004 SG

omg... go find a marriage counsellor...

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jeramy SG

go kill yourself man

sgboy2004 SG

mi can help...or rather XLN, mi first wife, can help...

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De|usi0n SG

men are always like that….think back on the times when u still loves her, before u were married, and think Y you love her in the first place..get that feeling back.

sgboy2004 SG

once it is gone...it is gone... Crying or Very sad

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[ X ] & [ L ] SG

Hm... Well afterall its a two yr marriage with a kid. Why not bring her to a vacation go rekindle some flame...

If u do value and cherished e relationship, you should know what to do... Mr. Green

sugardaddy SG

well go and knock your head against the wall and die there,,,no one will pity you pal….

loneryu00 SG

When U 2 wanted to get married dat time... U ever tot of wat wld happen after dat? Maybe U 2 got married due to passion of love... But U got add in commitment? I tink U can try asking old couples how they stick together for so long... I tink it better for U...

kohanson SG

How can you said that you don’t love your wife already after 2 years of marriage? What’s all the commitment about when you made it the moment you marry your wife. What makes you don’t like her? You should find out the problem first and try to solve it..

sgboy2004 SG

Divorce rate is rising...u just add in to the statistics..

go find a marriage counsellor first...

thinking oneself is useless as u are entrenched in thoughts singularly, which is not conducive for healthy thinking... go see the professional...

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kohanson SG

Make your marriage chaos-proof.

http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=39182

reallieRAW SG

With juz a few lines of explanation of your situation to us, we can't possibly help. In your own words, tell us WHY you find that you do not love your wife, bcoz you are not making love to her anymore?

I'm trying to u/stand & find out the possible reasons:
Is making love VERY impt to you? Your wife is under-performing?
Do you love to have a kid? Fear responsibility?
How do you see your wife going thru pregnancy?
Are there misu/standings btwn you 2 so far? Regarding wat?

Try to sit down & think abt all these. You've only Detected that you may not love your wife due to some reasons (need to identify 1st) It's a good sign to have Discovered and not late to improve things if you have the intention.

If making love is the only reason from my u/standing, it is actually a sign that something has affected in the r/ship that you dun wish to carry out this intimacy with your wife. Pregnancy can be a reason but I shant speculate too much....We'll wait for your reply.

Prodigy SG

reallieRAW
i dont think sex is the reason lah

like, someone said, go on a vacation with your wife ALONE...leave your kid with grandma for a while...

you really need that

jOhO SG

man.. u're really screwed.

actually RAW, i dun believe we need mor details.

such situations aren't new, and we don't really have to fill in the blanks to know how sad the situation is.

holymannn, i would suggest you try. open up ur heart, for she's a good woman, or you would have told us that she wasn't.

loneryu00 SG

U dun love yr wife? Love yr KID...
IF U 2 divorce, da 1 suffering is da child...
I've been thru dis, so I noe it (dun give sarcastic remarks abt dis, ppl...)
If U cannot love yr wife, channel yr love to yr child... let yr child be a happy kid & grow up to be a happy person. I grew up from a single parent, so I noe da pain & misery...

Da most INNOCENT party is yr child, trust me...

browniebaobao SG

What made you marry her in the first place? Remember the vow you took? Try to recall...Think of all her good points..maybe the temptations outside made you feel that she is not attractive anymore..remember she is the one who bore you a lovely kid. Remember the good old days..
What is love? What is marriage? Is it so fragile? Rolling Eyes

zacken99 SG

responsibily n happiness....its up to u to chose..........

but watever its is...ni yao dui de qi zhi ji de lian xin! Cool

Bianca SG

Yeah go get professional help from those marriage counsellors, many s'poreans are often too embarrassed to seek help from outside, but if you value your relationship with her & yes, the kid is innocent, pls do something about this!!

I pray that you wun add on to the rising divorce stats...
May God bless you & your family, I hope everything works out fine.. Wink

Juz~Me SG

Y??wat happen?? but sometimes, relationship things can be very unpredictable...dun be too harsh on him lar....

Maybe, u shud really sit down and ask urself wat had actually happen dat makes u think u dun love her...no matter hw much advices we can give, we r still outsiders..u r the only one who noes the reason, be trueful to urself!