It q sad to hear tat..
At time do wonder, if that marriage might end up in divorce.. wats
the point of getting marry? weird...
Well, atleast for me, i feel that love dont last forever. But to
make love last forever. Effort need to be put in to make love last.
Both party have to put in effort to make the relationship work and
to strengthen it.
Juz like, we will do simple things (catch up with fren with phone
calls/ over coffee session etc) to keep friendship going, need not
say a marriage... But people take things 4 granted.. feel that,
he/she is already mine, so why should i put in extra effort.. or
even no effort is put in at all to maintain the relationship.. And
to think of it, things that are dear to us, we should take care of
it but we neglect it instead... sigh Have to add some "Spice of
life" ( holiday is good, learn new hobbies together, take time off
to have quiet time with just you and her, movie etc) into the
marriage, if not it will be dull.. and soon go down the
drain...
Its not late to save the marriage. You marry her, cos you love her
in the 1st place, cos she is that special someone. So why not give
your best all over again.. you will perhaps find joy in loving
again... And definately she deserve the best don't she...
