Originally posted by mojomee:
when we broke up that time didn't solve any problems cos he
felt we can't solve them so he rather just breakup. He doesn't
think we'll ever be happy staying together....so till now we
haven't solve them yet...sigh..thou he did say he will try to after
we sort of got back but i dun see him putting in any effort in
solving them...in fact it was i who suggested that we should sit
down and talk thru our problems.
I wonder if you all will agree with me that sms is quite a lame way
of communicating..esp during the period when you are trying to get
back with s.o. He does call and tries to arrange for dates but till
in the beginning when we got abck together he was worried to let
others see us together. he also didn't tell me his intention abt
getting back when he asked me out on the first date after we broke
up. it's only after [b]I asked him wat's he trying to do
did he express his intention!!!...and when my friends are angry
with him for being so stubborn about the breakup previously, he
felt indignant that they should be...he's also rather unhappy that
he's second priority in my life now after my family.....till now he
still dun dare to come and visit my family or bring me home to
visit his. Little things that he promised after we got back
together like going to watch Chicago, making new specs after we get
our pay, lending me a textbook etc...he didn't even try to fulfil
them! how can he hope to earn back my trust if he is so insincere?!
The most champion thing he did was telling me not to put my hopes
too high that this relationship being able to work out again!!!
.....
can anyone explain his mentality? i really try to be nice and
tolerated all his wishy-washiness and his lack of effort but i feel
that this can't be the way....wat should i do.... 
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dun know abt u but he sound so the not sincere....u sure u 1 to
risk ur heart being broke by him again? my 2 cents worth of advice
is...unless u r sure tt he will not break ur heart again, it is not
worth it 
