edLow SG Hai, sound so much like a situation I'm used to be... Got his frd whom I really like... Almost every frds of mine whom saw her thought she was my gf due to the closeness we are during outside. When I decided to break lose this situation and ask her if she does like me, the reply I got from her was nothing... perhaps.. a silent / indirect rejection pa?
browniebaobao SG What were you implying huh? Would u consider marrying a fren and not your stead? Funny!
birdbird SG love is slowly losing its real value in ppl now.it's really sad. guys and girls just want to have fun now without any obligations.just like ppl treat sex as nothing now.isn't it ideal if those that really treasure a loving r/s be pair with one another while those who just want to have fun just let them continue their fun??then there would not be so many broken hearts out there...
Herself SG Love is hard to define and i think none of us have the answer....maybe some pple think they have it. so share it then. but anyways love's definition definitely differs from person to person so the way they show it and the way they love is very diverse. some people get married but they haven't realised or truly loved before...what i'm trying to say is that they may not be 100% in love with each other but are married anyway. the reason varies as well as the range of the sky and sea. so love with all your heart or what's left of it i guess. conservative views or not, i'm sure love is supposed to make you happy. but of course there's intense sadness involved. if there's none then its not love is it? its a sad life.
Herself SG and personally…i think there isn’t a love so pure that it doesn’t involve physical attraction/
jeramy SG what i am trying to ask you is how DO YOU treat both parties? you treat them both with the same level of care ? that's what i wanna know.
Herself SG Friends are lower on the priority list than your bf/romantic interest. for example, you have to choose between a class party and time with your bf. so you choose to put your bf first.. i'd be there for the one i love. hypothetically speaking. -cross fingers-
loneryu00 SG U sae bf 1st coz U value him more than frens... U r da "typical, female cum selfish cum narrow-minded cum etc, etc type... ( Sorry. no offence.) But hey! Dat doesn't mean I m any better? I claim myself to be an MCP, bombastic, BHB, etc, etc... So even lah! ok?
browniebaobao SG hmm...Of course booyfren means the whole world to me lah..but frens are forever...shou xin shou bei dou shi rou..what to do?
loneryu00 SG Dats kinda contradicting... From wat U sae... bf comes 1st... but frens r da 1 who support U all da time...?
loneryu00 SG Hai! Hai! I value frenship... "GF/BF" can be broken... but frenship is oredi built on a solid foundation... n somemore, r/s emerge from frenship... my view...
loneryu00 SG U view things too vague & 1 sided... but I respect yr view... Yes, acquaintances alot, but true FRENS not much... dats y I value FRENSHIP.
Herself SG why selfish? why narrow minded? i think jeramy was trying to get at this...crossing the line with friends and the difference between friends and juvenile BGRs
loneryu00 SG Hmm... very hard to explain... but really U r NOT da only 1 who wld choose bf over frens...
