Originally posted by ahzhao:
what will u think of a guy who always keeps himself away
from crowds, lonely and single, having framed by "gd friends" and
got himself few records, with no true friends and doesnt trust ppl
easily
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[b]Nu ReN yI kU eR nAo SaN sHaN dIaO~~~[/b]
If you asking me whether he is normal or is it right - I would
answer yes.
However... regardless of what sort of character a guy/girl is - he
or she would rather be with a small group of trustable, dependable
friend than to be alone. Such is a nature of human and it is rather
psychologically and socially affecting to be always alone.
I am not saying you must go to a party and befriend every single
one in it; true friends come in many ways and it is like wine - it
grows better with age. You said you don't trust people - naturally
you would have few friends - as simple as that. People would
instead see you as a weirdo, a grouch, etc and the tendancy to
avoid or not using the chance to fully know you inside out is
pretty high isn't it?
Alot of times people who claims that they love to be alone or when
among the few friends they have, these people don't seemed to be
true friends, etc - I think its always good to self reflect upon
oneself and ponder why others ain't like that and why am I like
this. Seriously speaking - if everyone have a chance, they would
rather be with a good friend, or someone decent. Are you giving
this chance to people and yourself? You said you were framed by
good friends - all I have to say is, if you found a worm inside the
chocolate bar you are consuming, are you going to stop eating
chocolate all your life?
Cheers
