How do u noe if a guy is sincere?

sensitivic SG

Hi pple!!

From yr experience, how do u sense sincerity in guys. I mean, if a guy has been calling u everinite & chat with u for 4 or 5 hrs, iz he consider sincere enough?

Pls help mi on tis cos i reali dun noe if i shd giv him a chance. i hv been hurt bfore in my previous rship & tats y i find it hard 2 trust again.

<Tks!! I reali appreciate yr advice..>

Bear SG

I dun think that's called sincerity... there's more to it.

Frankly, for us guys to go after a ger.. chatting over the fone is nothing... Furthermore it's the interest in getting to know u that trills the guyz.. and u'r a ger.. makes him even more want to chat with u.

I think sincerity really comes in when it comes to interaction.. not just a day or two... to be able to be truthful and sincere to u when u r on the fone and when u r out wif him. And it has to be seen for a period of time (longer the better, but not a life time lahz... hee hee..abt 1 to 3mthz lahz.)... If he's sincere.. his care will not change... he will not get bored of u.

This is from a guys pt of view..

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aCkO SG

no lah it doesnt DEFINITELY mean that he is sincere he may jus think u r someone nice to tok to thats all wait for some ‘action’ frm him or else the one ending up being hurt might be u..

babyandao SG

hmm...u can consider me to be sincere...hehe like to know u better....care to e-mail me and we know each other better?

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Cheers !!!!

sensitivic SG

Ya, i tink u guys r rite.Juz chatting on phone doesn't mean he is sincere or serious in mi.I believe time n his actons wil giv a better indication of his sincerity. m i rite?

But juz out of curiosity, if u r interested in some1, how patient wil u b or how much time wil u giv her 2 accept u?

& Babyandao, mayb u whd like 2 show mi abit of yr sincerity? Razz

mikegk_76 SG

Well, if u ask me, I'm a very patient guy and willing to wait as long as possible till she accepts me, but of course not to the extent that she falls in love with someone else, hehehe...

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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off

aCkO SG

actually sometimes there is no need to wait if u wanna find out whether he is interested in u or not
jus observe him
how he talks whether he cares abt ur feelings or not
test him maybe drop hints like u are goin out wif another guy and see his reaction.. that may be effective
gd luck to ya!

Bear SG

but I think guys nowadays do not really bother wif whether u go out with other guys or not. maybe when u r still young, u will show. but for me, I dun think I will lorz. coz I can understand that a ger will can usually have more than one admirers...

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Bear SG

I gave a ger 5 yrs... but got rejected in the end.. sighz... 8~(

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TarrePanda SG

I gave a gal 7 years. She got married.

Bear SG

So sad... sob sob... 8~( worse than me...

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ixrev SG

To gals out there lor..........
Wat do guys normally do to show that he is sincere to U lei?? Wink

browniebaobao SG

Friends can also chat on the phone for hours..Some pple who are sincere might not talk much too..

blue_kelvinsg SG

BESTZ !

dark_slayer79 SG

True for me....
Mr. Green

dark_slayer79 SG

erm.... that one way but becareful u can put him off too

loneryu00 SG

Wat kind of sincerity U wanna sense? Da type where he REALLY wanna chase ? Da type he wanna be good frens wif U? Or wat?

Sincerity dun appear in a few daes... U have to noe one another for quite some time & oso notice his actions, behaviour towards U & others, etc, etc... Chatting on phone is nth... To me most likely juz trying to noe U more b4 deciding on his next action... ( Or he wanna chase U?)

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