feeling totally screwed up

last SG · 2003-03-09T11:42:33+00:00

feel kena played out… maybe its my stubborness affecting my decision or maybe she really do mean something to me… watever…. wallowing in self-pity now…comes...

sgboy2004 SG

tat's trust... u are starting to question your trust for her liao.

Nevertheless, this will just go in circles....

Tell her how u feel in an email. If she still insists on the breakoff, guess there's little 1 can do if the other hav changed her mind.

Do a cost-benefit analysis on the viability of your return to sg. The cost is not about $$ onli, the intangibles too.

Good luck

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man12 SG

i was kinda in that position when i was courting her. but managed to survive thru the hard times she had while we are together, thus think differently of me.

man12 SG

[quote]Originally posted by sgboy2004:
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tat's trust... u are starting to question your trust for her liao.

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trust have lar but being so far away and she MIA so many times a week how can i not be scared. i'm more of a pessimist thinking of all outrages possibilities... sometimes i wonder if i know her too well liao..(she needs a lot of attention)

jOhO SG

wah lau europe.. that's far.. Confused

man12 SG

haiz Crying or Very sad

sgboy2004 SG

attention seeking...hmmm.. not a good characteristics for LDR...

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jOhO SG

when u planning on coming back?

man12 SG

in another mth.. for a while before i go back again to finish finals..

jOhO SG

when's finals? so u gonna miss classes and still take exams?

Yunhaier SG

I rather you finish your business at overseas, come back and start everything anew. Rolling Eyes

Cheers

man12 SG

errr… frankly tat not my piority now.. but will be safe for my final.. i think… even if i dun go back will still affect me very much…no-win situation

man12 SG

cheers mate

man12 SG

haiz … all do now is hope for the best.. hope she realise whats she’s doing and what and why i’m doing it….

Devil1976 SG

Cool I was one....

jOhO SG

oh really? well i guess i'll have to eat my words then. Wink

but why "was"?

Devil1976 SG

My opinion's the same.... Cool

Devil1976 SG

Perhaps I've changed..? Not too sure...? And just in case you wanna ask this...? Nope... Even if I've changed that it's not because I wasn't a happy person... Perhaps I've tried to be a 'happier' person...? But I guess the MAIN part of the reason would be that it's part of my persue for 'meaning in Life'...? Cool

M©+square SG

Shocked Why so short??? Mad

jOhO SG

OOK introspective indeed!

as for the happiness part, only u know, and i hope u find it, or find more of it! Mr. Green

Devil1976 SG

You seems tired, wary and concerned...?

My VERY PERSONAL OPINION.... Perhaps she's TIRED of this relationship...? Being in this LDR thing only further ENHANCE her belief...? And no matter HOW you LOVE her and try to save this relationship... Notice this PATTERN that could be emerging? The MORE you try to PULL the rope, the MORE she let goes of it... Her actions reflects her intention... For whatever reason(s) which could be excused or not, it's not so obvious....

4 questions for you here if you don't mind....? What is the reason for her to break up with her EX? What is the reason for both of you to believe that this relationship shouldn't have lasted so long....? What is your horoscope star sign and blood group? And what's hers...?

Regards....

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