yahoo.com SG hello all ... just wondering what will u ppl choose between the two options below: 1. minimise all ur contacts with ur frenz to be with the one u love 2.minimise contact with ur love to maintain frenship with others Loved one means ur gf/bf pls dun say tt must balance between the two etc. coz i just wanna know what will u guys/gals choose between the two options given. thanks...also please state ur gender so that its easier to evaluate how gals n guys think for me: its option 1: minimise all my contacts with my frenz to be with the one i love. i definitely wont mind it as i feel frenz come and go easily. and i will definitely want to keep my other half as happy as possible which means spending lotsa time with her also. btw i m a guy.
sgboy2004 SG guess it happens in phases...initially (1), and much later than (2), but your options are really too extreme liao...hence pple find it hard to vote lor... mi guess usu. it is (1) initially, and then moderate... to include friends into the activities...to meet wif each others' friends mah... _____________ i am a gentleman Check for your smiley here
De|usi0n SG stoopid Q, its like ur mum and ur gf drop into the pool, both cannot swim,,, u can save opne , who u going to save? u aint spiderman remember?
Parka SG I can do both. But it will have to depend on the situation. Everything said now is useless till the day it comes.
Flight Cadet Officer SG Option 1. Many "friends" walk past us everyday. But honestly speaking, who really leaves behind footprints ? Reflect that back on the CEO for Kenair. Having shut down his company, he moved from a 7 room mansion into a HDB flat. Many gave a pat in the back and say "badluck". But 3 gave a pat in the back with en envelop comtaining $10,000.
shan_cai SG 4 mi it gotta be option 1 loh... dun ask mi y... juz wanna be wif my loved 1 everyday... 2 mi love is more impt than frenship(!)... im willin 2 gif up anythin or do anythin as long as he's happy...
Devil1976 SG Though you've already mentioned, but I'll still choose BALANCE lah.... Forcing an Option 1 or 2 is like asking me, you wanna EAT or BREATHE?
NathanG5 SG tis Q is so extreme...get a life dude... love is not everything...love n frenship can be balance...dun be so chee hong
silentnitz SG i’ll choose my love….frens shd understand that…they are suppose to support what u doing…be there for u in times of need….but ur love is different, though they perform almost the same function as a fren, they are different cos u love the person and wan to be with the person 4ever…
