well... im a girl, but i experienced that same thing as u. cant
really offer good advice on this perhaps cos im a victim myself?
i
really love my ex, just that i felt insecure. same thing as u, i
didnt get any reassurance in return. but whatever u do, pls dun
slap her... i feel that it's really ungentleman. *no offence*
for me, maybe im worse off than u. i was beat by my ex once, and
pushed many times. whatever he wants, i learnt to give in. maybe
some point in time, u will get sick of giving in? when u love
someone u may be willing to give in. however, have u ever thot that
u urself also need to be loved?
my ex and i nearly broke up a couple of times before, however we
kept hanging on and lived a fruitless relationship. i didnt realise
it till i thot back after we broke up a few days ago. everything i
did was one-sided, i felt that it's time for me to be pampered and
showered with love too. i was really tired to move on further and
in the end i agreed to break up (he initiated it yet AGAIN)
what i can say is, my love for him is beginning to fade into
hatred............. 
