what if u have feelings for ur own cousin?

last SG · 2003-02-05T21:30:10+00:00

shame on me? shame on u man! u r here telling everi 1 tat u like a xiao mei mei! wahahaha... xiao di di, go home n drink more milk lahz!

SoonKeong SG

hey guys.. just a feeling which i wanna consult u all...
recently just got a special feeling with my cousin who is 5 years younger den me. we are qing mei chu ma when we are very young very closed at tt time.
wad should i do?

elderly often says that blood related cousins cant be together, but is it really impossible?

Qoo`~` SG

maybe its just a crush..
very soon u will forget abt her wan.....

kohanson SG

it's better not to be together..
You too are close as in like close relatives and do not develop to any feelings that is more than that..

blue_kelvinsg SG

U SUX ! juz kiddin la ... =)

Parka SG

Confused

SoonKeong SG

i hope it is, but i realise it is getting heavier each day.

SoonKeong SG

not really say close relative...
she is my mother's brother's sister.
impossible is still the only word to answer my trouble?

aHGer^83 SG

when i was 13 yrs old..i had a crush on my coushin in taiwan...he was.....almost 10+ yrs older den me...but...den i realised...i was so silly...keke... Laughing

Parka SG

Wait for Guru Yun to answer your call......

Qoo`~` SG

its actually quite close....
i wil not say so, but if u feel that its not a crush and u truely love her and same feelings also for her. then its possible..
yr family very conservative tpye one?

Yunhaier SG

Since its your mother side - the blood relation isn't that strong, but seriously speaking - when it comes to such foresee-able ill decision that man could make - best is to avoid before you may regret.

Your feeling to your cousin is probably not love - it is probably a need to protect and care for her (you said special feeling) and this may not be = to love. It is important to understand the sort of emotions that you may be experience and to identity with precision to avoid unneccessary problems. Evil or Very Mad

In summary: If you can avoid - avoid it. Rolling Eyes

SoonKeong SG

hmm.. yunhaiver..
u have a point there.
perhaps i shall see how it goes ba.
zhen ai nan qiu... if she really is the one i like and not juz crush den i shall take further action Neutral

SoonKeong SG

eh.. ya it is suppose to be so....
heard it's like, father's side cousins den cant be together ba..?

^mm^ SG

if she's frm mother side ok
bt father's no ok

SoonKeong SG

my parents does respect my decision... i hope

anyway my cousin didn't know about my special feeling for her.
wad will happen if i say? scarly she dun even wanna tok to mi anymore or perhaps her parents will condemn her.

SoonKeong SG

i dun see it as something shameful loh
wad's so malu about this?
chinese married malay
indian married japanese
angmo married african
wad else?=p

Promiscuitee SG

u can accept dosn't mean it's also ok with her, right?
anyway, what the heck!! what make u so sure she won't reject u?

kohanson SG

you better consider properly first..
She might take you as a close relative instead of someone you wanna spend with for the rest of your life.

SoonKeong SG

ya.. maybe she will.
but i am trying to spell out my feeling tt's all.=)
maybe more time will help to determine everything i guess...

but thankz for everyone hu reponse to my question!~

duotiga83 SG

last time use to but nw i find it stupid….