Be OBJECTIVE. View the situation like an onlooker does.
I did.
Everything happens for a reason, even an extramarital affair. There
are many ways to analyze the whole thing. To find the root of the
problem, find the scumbag or slut (culprit) or salvage the
marriage??? These are OPTIONS but they can be settled only by the
Married Couple.
As a child, I put aside my emotions, the pain & hurt, and try
to imagine myself in their very shoes. Is the marriage Worth saving
or otherwise. I Wldnt & DID NOT meddle in it. It was a Love
affair of 2 pple close to me that was all.
Whatever has to be will be 
