Originally posted by Yunhaier:
Its better to lose your pride to someone you love than to
lose the one you love because of pride. We often spend too much
time looking for the right one to love or finding fault with the
ones we already love, when instead we should be perfecting the love
we give. 
We often get too defensive whenever our partner spill nasty words
that leave holes in our armour. Many a times, we always failed to
look at ourselves on why situations are become such a scene OR we
become so blinded by love that we only look and blame ourselves for
such ill fate. 
So, people moved around the two extreme I suppose? *see nodding
forumites reading my naggy post.*
Think about why have you both come together? Think about why is it
him/her and not maybe me,
Sgboy2004, XLN or anyone else?
/me heard someone yelled fate.
Fate? Some people claims that fate is a major issue regarding love
relationships. Some people believed that destiny lies within your
own hands - you have to fight for your own destiny. Have you knew
of cases where people don't even need to do a thing and love just
come to them, while some people fought tooth and claw for this
potential one, just to discover her union with another guy/girl
when in reality, you have already done far more than him/her?
/me saw corner guy stood up and shout 'suay lar' 
Effort and hard work isn't enough my friend - to be
[b]effective and frank-to-self is more
crucial.
Effective: You could handwritten a hundred copies
of notes for 6 hours or photocopy them within 20 minutes. So which
is more effective?
Frank-to-self: Always chose a potential partner
whose looks factor isn't 1 - 2 points higher/lower than you.
Character compatiablity is very important and *never* rush into
relation without knowing that person decent enough if you desire a
proper relation.
/me preparing to leave, but crowd yells in unison 'Looks factor?
Compatiability? but love is blind leh!'
Always remember this point: You are the one that chooses your
partner, not the other way around. You chose the one you want to
chase, choose the one you want to be with. If you made the choice
-be responsible for your own choice - because you made it yourself.
Take the easy way out and say goodbye to the relation without
truely fighting for your own love is like admitting defeat before
your enemy stationed outside your fort.
Cheers
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juz curious, how long did it take you to come up with all
these?
