Love doesnt last?

fish&chipz SG

hey pp...
beri sad manzz...juz now i jokingly asked my mum if my cousins (both oredi married..but went 2 pi nian last yr din gimme ang baos...) if they're b making an appearance tis yr or wld try 2 escape again n save $$...my mum then said my cousin oredi separated fr his wife!
wahh piangz...i was aghast manz...so shocked lidat..apparently they decided 2 sign e separation papers after onli 10 mths into their marriage...gona b divorced soon...
i feel rili sad 4 them...they seemed like such a great couple...
from wat i noe they park tor ard 5yr then tie red knot...it seems that love doesnt last these daes..n pp change their minds real quick?? Crying or Very sad

Yunhaier SG

From a survery, it has shown that nowadays, people have less patience than their parents in trying to substain and work out a marriage. Last time, people work for a marriage regardless of how sh|t because it is an irreversable process, but now - people are getting married for different reasons. Married because of unborned child, for money, etc. Evil or Very Mad

Since people married for different reasons other than true love towards one another and the wanting to live and go through live with that special someone - you don't really catergorized under love isn't it? Rolling Eyes

Therefore Love does last - don't get influence from whatever the environment is happening. If you know what is right and feel the same, work towards it.

Devil1976 SG

Marriage is nothing more than a legal piece of paper for commitment.... It doesn't directly add strength to your relationship nor promise anything in the future... Except maybe in some legal sense actions...? Cool

Hitakogi SG

If love doens't last, wat else still last? Rolling Eyes

Peppermint SG

why marry? just a paper….live together hapy can liao…although is sillipore if u have child then a bit problem///

fish&chipz SG

my ex-cousin-in-law...fell in luv wif another man...n e grounds 4 divorce was incompatible personality... Shocked

gasband SG

I guess these things are happening more often nowadays, but that doesnt mean love dun last, it only meant that people's views towards love and marriage are no longer matured.

Being the busy pple, we are, while we are pak-toring, all we wanted is to see each other, tok a bit, share each other problems, then thats it. after pak-toring for many years, it seems natural to get married but yet, thru the process both neber really tok abt what each wan from married life, what they expect from a HUSBAND/WIFE and not a BF/GF. so they think they are ready cos they are so happy together as bf/gf but when get married, some will start to realise that this guy or girl is not fufilling his/her expectations as a spouse and so they start to get disillusioned...
and all these could have been MINIMISED if our idea about marriage is not so shallow. There has to be more practical communication about marriage...some will think such communication may destroy the romance of a marriage, but as i always say, do some practical thinking and communication before you enjoy the romance.

Parka SG

Wow, amico. You have one big dark moving dragon.gif. Mr. Green

Sg1 SG

Hmm think its getting more&more difficult to find eternal love....eternity is somehow not in this century liao Wink Rolling Eyes

TZR SG

Love is not just plainly love, its about patient, mutual understanding, endurance, and lots to maintain... not as easy...

its always takes 2 hands to clap, if both don wanna comprimise then in the end both will seperate...

Unregistered SG

1 very impt thing in a relationship is that at least 1 party must know when not to talk.
very often, during a fight, nasty things r mentioned and if both sides continue to throw hurting words at each other, it will be hard to reconcile...like s'pore vs m'sia.
if guys(usually the more rational) keep quiet and let the ladies (usually more emotional) throw their fuss until no strength, then juz sayang her abit, things would be better....

JeweL81 SG

Love should be like fireworks Cool got it?

PhantomR SG

actually ah... partly is like.. ppl nowadays more open.. so more daring.. last time married then they accept good or bad.. they just make do... (im not saying no good or very good)
nowadays.. ppl tend to be more open minded divorce getting more acceptable.. but then again ppl tend to take things for granted.. as in a bit not happy only divorce... ppl tend to forget the fact that.. romance do die down as time pass its very hard for any couple to experience the same level of passion for each other over time as when they first started out.. that's why some couples see it as a sign to break i cannot say this is correct or wrong cause it really depends.. but i think people should understand more before.. getting married or committing themselves just like my friend he only know he's gf(fiancee now) for few months then engaged!!! oh my to me its too fast but on the other hand only time will tell.... 2 cents...

sgboy2004 SG

i think i will renounce the worldly attachments and be a monk better. Sad Rolling Eyes Sad

/thinking, think, thinking, think....

yErN SG

its not easy... Smile

yErN SG

u sure u can be a monk anot? u seem to be very active one wohz.hehe. Twisted Evil but well...its a sad fact la huh...

Wind SG

Happy and beautiful moments don't last.
And I don't believe in 'Ceng Jing Yong You' or memories.

If things don't last, might as well don't start.

digicharat SG

some ppl can live together as bf/gf but not as husband/wife

marriage require alot more responsibility and commitment. and some ppl just cant handle that.
ppl will expect more from husband/wife. but it is only after marriage that ppl realize that the person does not meet up to their standard of husband/wife

fish&chipz SG

fireworks die down eventually dun they?....

fish&chipz SG

y oh y???....saddening.... Crying or Very sad