Break up is something 99% of people would have to go through in
their life. You don't see people marrying their first love and live
with them till their passed away in these days don't you? Except
for the expectional few. 
How to detect a selfish lover - here is an insight. People who
TELLS you to wait for them are selfish lovers regardless of
reasons. Because they want to make sure even when the venture forth
into the unknown and fall back, there will be somebody to fall back
on OR the feeling of people liking them is like a booster to their
ego/morals/etc.
If you truthly love a person and if circumstances comes and you
have to let go - you will let go and allow him/her to go. Even you
heart bleeds inside - you will smile and wave goodbye. Some people
think that its virtually impossible for them to do something like
that, think about this - if others can do that, so can you. There
is no such thing as 'Love her/him until too much until cannot let
go' 
You have learned a lesson - which is a very good thing. Next time,
learn to open your eyes and look into a woman instead of just on
the surface. Love is blind - you can't really trust your heart,
therefore learn to use your eyes.
Revenge on her - what's the use? In the end, let me tell you - even
if you achieve what you want to achieve, you wouldn't be laughing
and saying that you are very happy with your doing, instead you
wouldn't feel good either if you succeed and worst if you don't.
What happened in the past mustn't repeat again - if you know she is
a b i t c h, then forget trying to reconcil. Remember: character
don't change overnight, since when you are with her you can't
change her, then when she is not with you - the MORE she wouldn't
change.
