are u looking for a companion? lover? provider(of
anything)???
if u are looking for a companion, usually, ur understanding of the
other half is weak, because all u want is someone to be there for
u, whether ur feelings are strong or not with ur companion, u won't
understand what goes on in his/her life... and when there's some
arguements, usually, it's a small matter blown big....
if u are looking for a provider, u juz want someone there to give u
all u want, whatever it is, money, or sex, u juz demand material
things, hence understanding of the person is next to nil, unlike
companion.............
if u are looking for a lover, u'll find that u are the one
sacrificing things, not DEMANDING things, and u know every single
thing abt ur lover, and of course, if ur lover falls in the above 2
catagories, u find that it's very hard to communicate with him/her,
and when u point out sumthing in his/her life, it often ends up as
a dispute....
whatever i typed above, is based on my POV
