hmm.... hope that i am wrong.... but wat i feel nowadays.... ppl
like us... tense to get into a r/ship so fast that u end it urself
u also wont noe it..... one of the most impt reason i believe its
becos we nowadays had become lazier... we tense to skip the
"knowing period" and straight away get into the so called "loving
stage" and that is y they can say : i love u.... i will marry u
etc.....
but when the time gets longer..... one of the party will start to
realised that he/she is actually not the one for him/her..... and
they initiate break up.... thats y ppl broke off so easily even if
they ever said that they love their partner?
and this is wat i posted b4.... =)
personally, i feel that for mi to say : i love u... its quite
diff....
unless me and her had already develop a kinda r/ship that have
already mature.... thou i dun really noe wat is mature... but i
think mature maybe got to do with whether hv already develop things
like
1. telepathy
2. understanding
3. compromising and of cos not forgetting
4. being together.
maybe till that time i might be able to really understand and to
let her noe that i had already develop love for her and not only
likings. but thats the danger part also.... if u ever love a
person.... means that u already in too deep.... if any failure in
the future.... sure diff to get over... and definately will need
some time to recover.... and the side effects is when u start
another r/ship.... u will be hv some kinda phobia.... u will tense
to be more protective and gif less to the other party.... that's
how i feel....
any comments anyone?
