Originally posted by Apis06:
hey, maybe you all can help me out a bit with this. here goes, i
was with this girl for about 9 months. sincerely speaking, the
first time i met her and when i first asked her to be my girl, i
had no feelings for her, totally. but as a lot of people say, love
grows from within and it did. i began to love her. things worked
out really well, although there might be some "breaking ups" and
misunderstandings between us along the way. every couple went
through some hiccups, there's no such thing as a smooth
relationship, right? anyways, all good stuffs come to an end. the
last couple of months,
she changed a lot. she doesn't seem to be the girl i knew. she gets
easily frustrated, at times she can't take my jokes, etc.
and then, last month, she blew it. i was kind of bored at that time
and called her up to talk to her. but, she didn't talk much. it was
as if i did the talking. i lost my temper for no reason and threw
stupid remarks at her. she end it right there, saying she had
enough and she's not turning back. come to think of it, i guessed i
was harsh on her. two days later, thinking that she had cooled
down, i thought we would get back together. fat hope! she got a new
guy! i just can't take it! can't believe she got another guy that
easily! but then, they last for a week only. boy im glad to hear
that! now, we still keep in touch. i do call her up to check on how
she's doing. i care for her, miss her a lot and of course i do love
her! no matter what happened, i still love her. 9 months may be
considered a short period of time for someone, but not me. i can't
get over her, not now or later. i even turned down a girl..hehe.
but then, i don't have the guts to ask her back. there's this fear
of rejection. my friends told me to go for it, because if she
really loves me, her feelings for me should remain. what must i
do?? tell her or keep it to myself? hope i get some advice, chill
man.. \m/
as underlined, that was the turning point, with or without you
blowing up the matter.
leave her as it is.
